Just found out my X from a while back has been fighting heroin addiction , she married so wannabe biker guy and apparently they both started with pills and now it lead to heroin . She had her kids taken away from her and she even gave birth while in jail recently . Do I reach out to her and ask her if there is anything I can do for her and tell her I hope everything works out for her or do I just totally avoid the situation ? I can not believe she did this to herself .
Don't be nosy, you won't be the first to try to talk to her about it and she will find it annoying. Its something she has to work out herself
She's your ex, dude. You sound like a good person but she's your ex. Generally it's a good idea to not reach out to exes. Complicate that with confronting her about her heroin addiction? Nope. Combine that with the fact that her biker bf might come and try to fuck you up for talking to her? Double nope.
>>18148229
Good points right here, OP.
I'd like to add, do you feel qualified to offer any help she might need, if points above wheren't an issue?
>>18147974
no. no. no.
Say 'no' aloud three times, OP.
NO!
I can't help her but she is such a sweet person and I feel so terrible for her and her children . I know she needs money cause she was evicted from where she was living and she needs money to move into a new place .
>>18148229
I'm far from a tough guy but her husband is the piece of shit who got her into this mess and it's going to be a while before he gets out of jail but even so I would love to beat his ass for doing this to her
>>18148253
I respectfully think you shouldnt do it, OP. Even if she had a less of a problem. Are you in contact with your ex still, or how do you know all of what has happened?
I used to live in Arizona but moved out of state and was speaking to some old friends and they sent me the articles about her and her husband and I'm sitting here shocked
I appreciate everyone's advice and I won't make any contact with her I came on here for advice and that's exactly what I got so thanks
Sorry to break it to ya bud: She's a junky! She may not even look like one but she is. She will only use you for anything she can TAKE from you. They are TAKERS not givers. USERS not people who care about make the community better. Be prepared to get used should you offer that hand....
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>>18148393
I hope your good intentions bring a lot of happiness to the people close to you, best of luck
>>18147974
Avoid. A heroin addict will add no happiness to your life. You had your time with that pussy, and its time to find a new one. A heroin addict will bring you no joy in life. They will depend on the obly person helping them and try to manipulate you. Just avoid it and stop being a SIMP
>>18148443
Thank you I really do appreciate that
>>18148451
I don't want any time with her pussy , in fact I doubt I could even get a hardon after seeing what she looks like . And it's not about being a simp I just feel like she made a fucked up decision and things just spiraled out of control for her .
Op Arizona here can I ask you what's her name or his name ?
If you were the addict she would proboly be riding a big dick instead of thinking about helping her looser x. Move on. Its her life she chose to get involved with loosers. Im from a bankrupt slum city in New england and trust me, no matter what, freinds, family, s/o, you are going to waste your time its not worth it. Imagine if you get her sober and she fulls in love with you and you turn her down and she goes back on the wagon then she will definetly blame you
The best thing to do is to tell her parents and family members then the balls in their court. Or call the cops on her and her bf while their getting high in the car the court will send the guy to jail she will have the option of prison time or rehab. These are the only ways you can help from a safe distance without directly involving yourself. But trust me, a heroin addict will bring nothing in your life but drama, thugs, addicts, problems, steal your shit and help you look for it, ask for cigg money, mooch of you. Dont fuckin get involved. Dont be robert deniro in casino trying to take a stupid whore under his wing.
>>18148726
Her husband is in jail and I doubt he's going to get out soon , his trial is May and he's facing two counts of aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, one count of attempted second-degree murder and one count of interfering with a judicial proceeding