I had sex on new years eve in the park while in the dark. it was Me (18) and my girlfriend (19) first time. I stuck it in only a little bit, like an inch. she says she felt me in. I used no condom. I lost my virginity right?
>>18147913
Nah, but if it helps then ye, sure
>>18147913
Nah dude. It only counts if you go at least 50% of your dick length.
It's like saying you've been on a boat but you stayed in the harbor the whole time
>>18147926
>>18147925
>>18147939
but I made her bleed. I'm 7 inches. plus our 19 year old friend who fucks at least 10 times a week said we lost our virginity. I never heard the 50% rule. plus I heard some people do just stick the tip in.
am I being trolled? honestly I did It like that because I jerked off to porn abd hentai so much I have trouble staying excited for an erection.
>>18147913
balls deep or it doesnt count
>>18147996
>jonah falcon is still a virgin
What did he mean by this?
>>18147996
but I made her bleed. plus she reacted pretty hard when I pushed it in.
>>18148002
wasn't Jonah some kinda criminal?
>>18148012
ya if she has her hymen it bleeds when it breaks... look up a fucking vagina diagram. it will hurt her at first but she will get over it. for women pleasure and pain work well together
>>18148038
I know thst, I was saying that to emphasize that I hopefully am still not a virgin. if I still am considered a virgin I'm giving up on sex, leaving her, and just gonna live my pathetic life in the woods
This whole thread is moot. Some say tip, some say 50%, others say balls deep.
I'd say fuck her for the duration it takes for you both to know without a doubt that you want to do it again and again, and that it felt real nice, and sex is hot, and you wanna get gud.
The fact that you got to ask, proves that you're still a virgin, but guess what
It doesn't matter!
because you got miles to go before you sleep,
and miles to go before you sleep.
Yes you lost your virginity.. don't listen to these idiots
>>18148038
also, the hymen is a myth
>>18148060
also, funny you should say that, since I just quoted 'Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening' by Robert Frost
Just have sex already. At some point you'll worry about other aspects of fucking, than whether or not you did it.
If you put any part of your dick into her vagina than that is sex. Doesn't mean it's good or bad sex. But it's technically intercourse. You're no longer a virgin. Ease up on the porn though and start building up experience with this girl. Get better at sex and eventually you'll have enough experience to fuck her the way she deserves and needs to be fucked.
And....the hymen is not a myth. That's just stupid talk. It's an anatomical part of the vagina. I like to think of it like that air tight foil seal on my yogurt. Open that seal..and fuck that yogurt. Metaphorically speaking of course
>>18148090
Think all you want
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/you-it/200806/new-york-times-is-wrong-about-hymens-they-are-not-alone
>>18148067
>>18148072
>>18148073
>>18148081
>>18148090
my body is garbage. I can easily get un aroused from certain things, I don't stay completely erect for too long, and my body can't handle jerking off 24/7. add to that I'm only 7 inches and my dick is slated a bit downwards from the base. most likely its from me humping the floor like an idiot to masturbate when I was 15-17. I give up on sex. fuck it. I hope I get run over by a goddammn car, I was cursed with the absolute WORST sex life imaginable. I'm gonna be a goddammn permavirgin. GOD KILL ME NOW YOU CURSED ME WITH A HORRID DICK. I REFUSE TO BE A WIZARD
Need 1 full stroke
>>18148156
Okay.
I'm
>>18148067
>>18147925
You're 18, I'm 33
Lemme tell you about my dick and sex
>also 7 inches - which by any standard is above average (world average is less than 5)
>also occasional ED, but that's often related to stress, or lasting too long (I can go 90 minutes without cumming, lasted about 30 minutes on my first try with a girl)
>lost virginity at 18, same as you
>alse slated, no point in comparing oneself to porn, they usually only show one type of penis
>never a problem
>my count is 15
>currently dating a girl 9 years younger, who want to fuck all the time, so naturally there'll be times when my dick just doesn't work
>also not a problem, because I can laught at my self, and as long as I have fun with her, and snuggle her up for a bit, eat her out etc, she's well satisfied, and soon I'll be ready to go again.
I also used to worry about my dick and sex.
Most young guys do.
You'll be fine.
Don't give up.
>>18148212
I need to work on my Dec drive, fir the past 2 months I've been trying to go 7 days without masturbating but I keep failing. on the 7th day supposedly I should have more testosterone
>>18148156
It's not your dick, it's your mind.
>>18148441
you sure? what is my mind doing to fuck me up
>>18147913
bump
>>18149117
It's called spiralling.
You start by questioning your own abilities.
Because of your insecurities, your body reacts to the fear of not achieving.
Because of your body's reaction, you start to believe that there's something wrong, and that you've confirmed your questioning.
Best way to deal with it is to be intimate with someone you trust, who won't leave you over insecurities (many would,) and just stay with whatever is happening. If nothing terribly wrong happens as you lie naked next to a beautiful girl, your body will accept that this is fine. And kind of hot. And then your penis will work.
The more you regress, the worse it'll confirm your fears. But your fears are in your mind, not your dick, like other anon said. Let your dick do the thinking, it'll know what to do.