So after masturbating to porn for years, I've finally made a promise to myself and stopped whacking it. I've gone cold turkey for a few weeks and I have absolutely no desire to view porn....
...but I also have no desire for real sexual contact with women. It's like my dick has completely stopped working. I am 28, fit, I workout regularly, not depressed or anything. I wake up with mini boners, sometimes semi-dreaming about women, but they quickly go away.
During the day I have no desire for women, when meeting women in real life I have no real desire for anything sexual. Its freaking bizarre.
When will my dick work again? Im kind of freaking out.
>>18110906
Maybe when you have real feelings for a girl senpai
>>18110911
But... But... I want my sex drive back. My mojo is gone. It's been like this ever since I stopped masterbating. My dick has gone totally limp.
>>18110925
Idk dood, I've never had a high sex drive in general, but as soon as I know I care about the girl I'm with, or feel at all close to them, I wanna fug 24/7
Maybe you should try seeing a girl you think you might click with. Go on a few dates, see how you feel. Step up the physical contact, until you know she's down to have sex. I think the anticipation might be the excitement your psyche needs. The flirting and nerves
>>18110925
Apparently this normal. You have a massive crash and then a huge rebound were your sex drive skyrockets.
>>18110906
Start jerking it again. The feelings will return. Why punish yourself for the rest of the year? Sex is a gift. Enjoy it.
>>18110906
>Being free from the influence of women
>Not celebrating
C'mon man, what's wrong with you?
>>18110980
I'm the anon that suggested getting some feels first
But this... This all the way man. Women are terrible.
>>18110972
Nah man I get an icky disgusting feeling about jerking off now, its like I'm allergic or something. I want to experience real mojo. I want to get boners in real life again while talking to a girl.
>>18111045
> get boners while talking to a girl
What the fuck. Lmao
You're 28, not 13. That's never going to happen again, unless maybe you deliberately think about fucking them vividly enough while their speaking. Who even does that tho...
I had my fwb straddling me and grinding in her underwear and I hardly got a half chub. The older you get, the less novel sex is, the less turned on you are by simple shit. Least of all talking with a girl ahaha imagine that ahaha fuck
>>18111064
Errr... Yeah, I guess what I was trying to say is that I want the urge to fuck, but I don't have it right now. Its weird.