Female anons: what makes you fall in love with a dude? What would you change about us and why?
>>18110003
Compatibility. I want someone that I enjoy myself with (both intellectually and personality wise), someone that makes me feel like I am "one" with them.
I also want to feel like they have my back but they support me - someone who encourages me to explore myself but, at the same time, makes me feel like in case I fail he's here to support me.
I wouldn't change anything specifically.
>>18110017
Makes since. What if he's all of those things but physically is not what you want? What you still fall for him?
>>18110019
As long as I am attracted to them in some capacity, yes.
If I am not attracted at all, no.
>>18110023
So as long as he supports you and actually wants to be with you possibly could fall? I'm kinda shocked to hear this. Everyone I've met is into looks and money( mainly online dating) seems no women is looking for what you're describing
>>18110026
Well, yes.
Compatibility for me is something a bit more complex than "we get along". I met maybe 3 people in my life I felt compatible with.
But, if I have that, I don't really care for looks or money all that much - sure, they factor in, but it's more the attitude about taking care of yourself or having money on the side that matters.
>>18110030
I understand completely. Thanks for the info. You have showed me that there is still hope for me and maybe I will find love lol.
>>18110033
Well, that's assuming you're not completely unattractive.
You're not, right, anon?
>>18110036
Looooollll no I know I'm attractive. I love myself. I'm no movie star looking dude... I'm skinny and want to put in more muscle weight but I'm no slouch or couch bum. I exercise regularly. What about you?