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How do dudes move on or not care?

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I envy dudes who can just tell a woman to fuck off or say to hell with her and just leave her the fuck alone.

I have been stuck on a woman for like 5 years now. She told me she likes me and yet she never texts me and ignores my texts like all the time.

I would move on but I just have no other option. She is the first and only girl to give me any sort of attention. I just don't have the means to meet more women so I just go crawling back to this woman who I think likes me.

I am stuck unfortunately. It like being in a desert and the only water to drink is a few sips of dirty water a day so you just drink it because you need to live. I envy dudes who can drink the purest of water and tell dirty water to go fuck off.

How do I achieve such levels of hydration?
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>>18109130

>I would move on but I just have no other option

Bullshit. You've allowed yourself to be used as a doormat and now you want to complain about how bad it feels.

Either nut up and start standing up for yourself or stop complaining about it because you know exactly what it is you have to do. You just don't have the balls to do it.
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>>18109135

I have tried walking away and my thoughts just wander off and start thinking shit like "I wonder if she thinks of me at all."

I tried not speaking to her for 6 months and I couldn't take it anymore. I broke down and texted her. During that time I met zero other women.
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Devoting attention to more than one girl. For a couple reasons...

You get used to being rejected/ignored enough that you grow numb to it and can move on much faster, and you develop an appreciation for the fact that even if you are getting rejected, there are always other prospects available to you (and at least a few of them will yield success).
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>>18109130

>5 years

so are you dating her or not?
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You need to stop giving a shit.
This comes from a female with absolutely nothing wrong with her that gets no male attention whatsoever with the exception of 2 creeps for the duration of 7 or so years.

Once I stopped giving a shit about that and valuing my own self-worth and accepting that I'd rather die of dehydration rather than persuing the magical well, I got an actual not retarded male to like me and made the first move, now we're happily together.

Stop giving a shit about it. Accept yourself then better yourself for your own well being.
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>>18109193

I have taken her on dates. We usually always split though. I told her I like her. She told me that she likes me too but wants to take it slow.
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>>18109217

5 years of slow?
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>>18109142
>>18109130
>>18109217

Mate grow a fucking scrote and tell her to fuck off.

You know why you have problems with women, the answer is simple. You're not honest. I think you want to be but don't have the courage to be.
Life is too fast and people have too much going on to unpack your dishonesty about life which you tell yourself, and by the way all women see this consciously or unconsciously and you yourself know it thats why you are complaining here now

Be more honest. Say things how you see them. Be direct.
You'll not only feel better but you'll be more in control of your own life.

Meet other women, own the fact that women don't like you, make a self depricating joke of it (Australians and New Zealanders are very good at this) this way when you make new female friends as the friendszone is where you'll begin with many your jokes signal that you're single and lonely and they'll start looking for possible matches for you too because they like you as a friend.

This women you've known for 5 years HASN'T EVEN DONE THAT! You know why? Because she doesn't give a fuck about you.
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>>18109270
>18109270


so what should I do? I feel like I would go insane without her. Like what am I supposed to do? I remember leaving her alone for like 6 months and I went fucking insane almost. Every fucking day I was thinking about her when I woke up and when I went to bed.

Every day.
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It's not about hydration.
It's more about control.
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>>18109130
>She told me she likes me and yet she never texts me and ignores my texts like all the time.

She's just leading you on. Actions speak louder than words. If she was honestly interested in you, she'd make an effort.
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>>18109288
Be a man and deal with it.

The difference between being a man and a boy is how you handle your feelings and self control.
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>>18109288
A strategy you should use when you stop speaking to her *which you should do immediately, is to everytime you feel these feelings just say to yourself "She doesn't care about me, all she cares about is herself because she is selfish.'

Yes you are brainwashing yourself, but its conditioning for a good purpose to free yourself from the slavestate you've put yourself in by saying she is the only one who cares about you.

She doesn't.

Others will.

But only if you shake off the parasite.
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>>18109372

I understand. I will admit, I feel super alone and I just want to feel human. This may sound dumb but I want someone to ask how my does was and shit like that.

Is that stupid? Is it possible to suffer from lack of attention or is that a dumb thing to say?
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>>18109130
dress like a wall street piece of shit and youll get girls slobbering their bad grades all over you.
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>>18109465
Genuine attention>>> DOGSHIT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>HIV>>>Fake Attention
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>>18109530
I see....

Where do I find genuine attention?
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>>18109288
free yourself
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>>18110211
from genuine people
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>>18109130
Women are just a secondary objective m8
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