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"I love you"

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I am in an arguement with my parents of them saying "I love you." I am nearly twenty years old and my mother has never once told me that she loves me. Both my parents are now not talking to me because we just got into a fight over her never having said it and they said that they "expressed it through their actions//gave me a good life." And I get it, I have a great life.

But all the actions in the world couldn't equate to her saying it verbally just once. I can't imagine my own mothers voice saying those weirds that's how foreign of a concept it is to me.

She says her parents hardly ever said it to her and that's how she was raised but she's not her parents and I'm not their child.

I just want to hear it once, Jeni, please.

[spoiler] Yes I know I'm being a whiny fucking bitch but fuck man, what am I even supposed to do? Neither of my parents will talk to me anymore.
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>>18108626

i dont think you're being whiny. once you get past the rebellious teen stage and live your adult life you enter a period of deconstructing your childhood based on how your adulthood is going.

and in it you find where a lot that seemed normal at the time went wrong. you just want them to say it and they wont even say it now. that says a lot about their own issues.
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>>18108637
I dont know man, I'm definitely still dependent on them because I'm at college. But dear lord it just hurts to realize I've NEVER heard it
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>>18108683

and thats fine man, you're not in any way wrong here. you are adulting and learning that things are a little fucked up.

my advice is to just lay low until you can move out. it doesn't sound like they want to change.

and the truth is its often too late. there isnt much that can fix it and even if you get that i love you you will likely still resent them for not saying it until asked.

for the most part we just need to deal with our issues ourselves.

similar stuff with my dad.
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I love you son
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>>18108626
t. Woman
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then she dies and you realize what a fuckwit you are
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>>18108626

Lmao you sound teenaged as phucc emotionally.

In 2 years you'll look back and you'll realize that even though these problems are real and if it upsets you, you should talk about it, you'll realize how little they are and how much your parents loved you even if they didn't say it directly
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