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How do I get over my anxiety while talking with women and girls?

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How do I get over my anxiety while talking with women and girls?
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very easily if you have a job.
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>>18107228
Really? Never been like that for me. When I'm talking to a girl that I'm actually interested in, there's a constant pressure to not fuck up. When I'm talking to coworkers or customers, I could probably spout Nazi rhetoric and not care about their reaction.
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same way you get over anything

keep doing it
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>>18107235
Fuck I hate this answer
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You won't until you see them as people, just like you, and guys, and girls you're not trying to hit on.
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>>18107247
You hate that answer because you underestimate how much you are gonna be forced to interact with them. There is a reason so many old people seem normal, its because they are and you will be lol
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>>18107226
Practice on guys.
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>>18107269
Should've made the op more clear. I meant specifically in reference to possible romantic interests. As for just women in my everyday life, it's perfectly fine.
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>>18107373
My issue is similar in that I can approach almost any girl and socialize, even if it's just physical attraction, nothing comes of it usually anyway, so no matter. The issue starts when I realize the girl is compatible with me.. and this is so extremely rare, that it's like revisiting old anxiety.
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>>18107434
real spaghetti anxiety..
so many ppl just smoke weed or get drunk and get passed it. I don't smoke anymore, not in years, or drink.. so I'm there feeling the full force of the impact quietly.
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pretend they are guys
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>>18107269
It's because all the weird maladjusted ones already either became hermits, committed suicide, or were rendered too sick or dead by their constant levels of stress and social isolation to be out where you might see them. It's survivorship bias.
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