What's the reasoning, I mean the logical cause behind acting stupid in front of a person you are interested in? Why would the brain try to work against you, what does it mean?
I know this doesn't happen to everyone, how do people get around it? Do they simply not give a shit about the person they are with?
Its mostly just distraction really. You get so hyperfocused and hung up on the other person you pretty much pay zero attention to what you fuck up. Most people don't care Becasue well it happens to everyone. Even the most alpha dude probably tripped over himself in grade school.
>>18105810
>Why would the brain try to work against you,
Welcome to Psychology
>how do people get around it?
It's all about how people handle stress I think. Some perform better under stress, some do not.
Which one are you?
>>18105848
I definitely underperform when I'm under stress, for most things like driving, college exams, etc.
>>18105810
nervousness.
>why would the brain try to work against you
why does your body work against you? by that logic you should be born muscular and tall and handsome.
but you're not. evolution used to mean that the best of the best survived. now it just means that anyone who desperately settles for another ugly someone passes on their genes.
thus, you were born.
>>18105892
I think that way too. Some people told me it's retarded but they were probably just desperately being politically correct.