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I'm a cheater

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Please help. What do.

>have 4 year GF with 33 BMI (35 lbs heavier than me), 4/10
>am 8/10, make 80k/yr thanks to GF's job referral, overall good catch
>she tried to kiss another guy 4 months ago when I was unemployed
>tried to break up last week because I felt like she cheated and killed most of my feelings for her
>she tried to kill herself so I pussied out
>promised we'd work on our relationship, and she'd actually lose fucking weight
>meanwhile met a girl online who's a 2 hour plane ride away. 7/10
>never felt like this with anyone. totally infatuated
>started sexting, skype sex, texting all day/night with 'I love yous'
>tempted to fuck the relationship improvement plan and fly out and start a LD relationship with new girl.
>moving in tomorrow with my 4 year GF to start my new job at her company

Do I stay with GF who loves me and has a life with me, but I struggle to connect with sometimes, or the new girl who's hotter, more interesting, easier to connect with, and who gets wet any time she looks at my face.
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>>18095067
nah fuck that shit bro..
she tried kissing another dude when you, presumably, hadn't given her a reason to cheat.

try the new girl, it's a fresh start.
jsut bear in mind that it could fuck it up at your job since your gf referred you there, so she may know people in the higher positions, which could affect you.
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it's over when she became emotionally invested in another man. bail
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Basically you want to have your cake and eat it too? Unless you're an executive who has an excuse to fly down there to have fun in Bangkok you're probably going to have to stick with your hambeast.
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one sided, you feel pity not love. Go for the new girl
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>>18095067
>never felt like this with anyone. totally infatuated
Sounds more like lust/honeymoon phase of a relationship. The start of a relationship is often really exciting but starts too cool down after a few months and can just fizzle out once you actually start spending time together and get to know and/or annoy each other. Do you really want to throw away a good job and a 4 year relationship to have a couple of months of sex which might just burn out when it stops being exciting and becomes routine?
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>>18095067
>Do I stay with GF who loves me and has a life with me

You stay with a GF if you love them and they love you back. It sounds like you are only with her on threat of suicide.

This is really just a question now of when you break up and how awful it will be. It is obvious the relationship isnt wanted by you and it is plain unhealthy and toxic regardless of your feelings. Spare her and yourself the pain by getting out NOW.
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