How do I get better at sex?
Girlfriend and I are each other's first and recently started. I usually go "two rounds" because the first one doesn't take long but that isn't too big of a deal what is, is me flopping around on her for 15 minutes. We don't currently have a lot of time and space to try new things. Usually we have to be somewhat quick and quiet. Any tips????
Shit looks about easier in porn
>>18085767
What I do is I sort of assume the psychology of the person I'm having sex with. I think of the sort of things that would really turn them on and do that - however more importantly knowing how to use your dick is valuable. Whether to go hard, or soft, or to accentuate certain movements when you bend her, these things are almost intuitive and I can't help you too much there.
Watching porn might help, but I mean most of it is kind of garbage. What I tend to do is read erotic fiction instead.
> We don't currently have a lot of time and space to try new things. Usually we have to be somewhat quick and quiet.
This kills most opportunities for you to try new shit. I've been in your shoes back in high school so I totally get it. I sucked at sex until a decade later.
Just read up on positions and stuff and see what works. A lot of it depends on your body, your dick size, your girl's body, etc.
>>18085767
Make is feel good, "aonomooooomomom" is the sound you should be making at all times sexual intercourse is taking place. Think anchor man meets Austin Powers.
But seriously focus on your breathing and fuck like you actually give a fuck.
Not having time is a big killer because women can take lots of its while getting in the mood.
You start real slow, kisses on the neck. don't go straight for the nipples but, the sides of the boobs.
Work your way down slow. Make it passionate and make her want you.... What that last part means I'm not entirely sure but, physically tease it.
Not a virgin and maybe not a pro but, that works for me.
>>18085767
mate there is nothing wrong with NOT doing 234234234 positions. going by the threads here there seems to be the believe that you have to fuck like you fuck in porn else its boring.
WRONG! do what you like but its also fine to make love and be fine with it.
Put pressure on ther clit with your pubic bone. We usually like when our dicks go in and out all the way, tip to base, but it feels way better for them if you stick it in and just hump as yoi still had two inches more to go in
And whenever possible, masturbate her, use fingers around her pussy and so on. Clits are mini dicks, treat it as one. If you're not doing something to it you're wasting a lot of potential
Talk to her about the kind of pleasure you like and ask her to do the same. Try different positions. Ask her, "Does that feel good?" and "Do you like that?" Have lots of sex. It's a skilled activity. You will get better with practice.