If I have small hips (not tiny, just not wide), and I wait till I'm thirty to have kids, am I going to have a difficult time giving birth?
>>18085472
you're going to have a difficult time having birth regardless
>>18085472
Yes, there are even women who have died giving birth, so good luck.
C-sections are a thing, you know. You can ask to have one, or if labour is taking too long or is getting stressful for the mother or baby, they'll make you have one.
>>18085486
I think I'm getting nervous because I never thought I would have kids (never had a big desire for them), but now my fiance mentioned that he would like to have one if I want to as well.
And now I really do want one. I didn't really realize how much until I realized it was a possibility...but I'm twenty five, and we both agree that we probably won't be ready for at least three to four more years...
I have all these thoughts and emotions running around in my head now and I'm nervous as shit.
>>18085505
My cousin is an extremely tiny woman and on her doctors' advice just jumped straight to the c-sections for her kids.
>>18085542
I'm so scared of C-sections fuck
Ok, I think it's time to make a doctors appointment and have a serious talk with her...fucking hell I'm going to look like a dumbass after asking her about getting my tubes tied...
She's going to give me a complete 'I told you so anon' stare.
>>18085477
this. its childbirth. its like asking which hand would be easier to cut off. technically your non dominant hand but you're fucked regardless.
Childbearing years generally span from 15 to 35. Past 35, your eggs are rotten.
>If I have small hips (not tiny, just not wide), and I wait till I'm thirty to have kids, am I going to have a difficult time giving birth?
Childbirth is too painful for a masochist and too expensive for a tycoon. If you're thinking about it, then you're probably not doing it.
>>18085546
>I'm so scared of C-sections fuck
It's major surgery. But it may still be the best choice for your future baby. The nice thing is that the survival rate is extremely high.
Plus I guess your vag isn't going to be wrecked. I'm not THAT close to my cousin to be talking about that sort of shit though.
>She's going to give me a complete 'I told you so anon' stare.
Maybe. More likely it's going to be "I get that you don't know what you want because you're young and I've seen this happen before".
So what? She's supposed to be working in your best interest.
>>18085556
>It's major surgery. But it may still be the best choice for your future baby.
That's true...
>So what? She's supposed to be working in your best interest.
That is also true.
You shouldn't be worried about your hip size. You should be worried about your expired eggs giving you a retarded child.
>>18085472
your hips with widen some during pregnancy, a doctor should be able to tell you if they would be ok. One of my friends is a tiny thing and 2 out of 3 of her kids were born naturally and she has a 6'3 husband, she's 5'2-5'3.