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>Have GF of 1 year >She lives at home with parents >She

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>Have GF of 1 year
>She lives at home with parents
>She stays at my apartment 99% of the time
>Her mom offers to let me move in with them so I can save money on rent
>Don't have a car ATM, so this can help me out a lot
>At the same time feel unsure about the relationship because the girl doesn't have sex at all

Am I manipulative for taking this offer? If nothing is fixed by the end of the year and I get my car I probably will break up with her.

I'm 2 years away from my degree and I am living in this state alone with no family.
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>>18059731
>I probably will break up with her.
well it sounds like you don't really love her so yes, it's manipulative
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>>18059737
I do, but I can't have a sexless relationship. If I see some progress in that department I will stay.
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>>18059746
Have you tried communicating your "needs" to her? I mean she is your gf, right? So discussing sexual desires/expectations should be open communication between the two of you.
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>>18059770
I've tried to. I don't see this issue getting resolved unfortunately.
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>>18059778
Why not? What did you say to her? How did she respond?

By the sounds of it, she's not your gf, but a very close friend who is a girl.
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>>18059781
She has sexual hangups mentally. She gets a bit upset.
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>>18059789
Just be totally upfront with her man. Tell her your plans about breaking up with her in a year if she doesn't get the sex thing straightened out. It's far better to tell her what the issue is and what you're going to do about it if nothing changes. Don't accept her excuse, just explain that a relationship has to work for both people
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>>18059789
Why that? Sexual abuse? Is she seeing a therapist for that?
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>>18059796
This.

You may want to ask her if she just wants to be friends, because being a "girlfriend" involves things that she apparently isn't ready to handle.
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>>18059731
>Am I manipulative for taking this offer?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gutCFMc5khY
Seriously, who cares? Women do manipulative shit as a matter of course, we might as well start doing the same. Besides, they made the offer, so they clearly don't mind. The real question is can you get along with her whole family? Are you ok with compromised privacy? Do you have a back up plan/a place to go on short notice?

>If nothing is fixed by the end of the year and I get my car I probably will break up with her
Girl isn't giving up any ass and you're giving her a whole year to unfuck herself? You're not manipulative, you're a saint.
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>>18059895
I get along with her family really well, especially her mom. During summer break I stayed over there for a while and it worked out pretty well.

I don't have a backup plan. But her mom specifically stated to my gf that if we broke up during the time that she wouldn't kick me out until I can get an apartment and get moved in.
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Just try to live that experience. Even if a break up happens, you still get to live with her, be part of a family and stuff. Maybe you feel you love her again once that happens?
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