My gf asked me if i want to have a baby. She always been denying

>>18057263
Don't do it. Unless you are 100% sure that you can happily raise a family with someone, it is not a good idea to purposely have kids.

>>18057268
have you seen the 2006 movie idiocracy?
here's a clip jump to about the 50 second mark to skip the bullshit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icmRCixQrx8

>>18057263
>i think is a step i have to do sooner or later
Its not. Back away from that thinking.
>she's not an easy person to deal with
This will get worse when you have a baby and you "need to man up" to be whatever she thinks a good daddy should be.

I don't want to plug someone's blog but read this and think about what having a kid with this chick is going to be like vs having a kid with a chick that would make a good mother
https://boldanddetermined.com/pick-the-right-wife/

>>18057263
>so far the relationship had up and downs
yeah, so it's the perfect time to give birth to some downs. Seems legit

She's still your girlfriend

I won't have a baby purposely unless we are at least marred first. You have to really be in it to win it, man. If marriage makes either of you feel weird then that's not a good step to take so soon, especially if her family is really traditional

People change after a kid. I've seen people have a baby by accident that were completely in love , excited about the baby, and now it's ended in him going through torture wanting to see this kid and this woman milking him for all the money he has AND HE CAN'T EVEN FUCKIN SEE HIM.
You'd be surprised all how much someone changes. How long have you guys been together, anyway?

>>18057263
>She always been denying that she wants to be a mother

All women do this. Some are lying, some are truthful but then when the wall approaches they get baby rabies