Are back rubs beta? Seriously? >wife sits down on couch and

>wife tells you to touch her
>you come to /adv/ to ask permission from faggots to do so

this is the most beta shit i've ever seen in my life

No. Not at all. What is utterly unmanly or 'beta' as you call it, is reacting to that request with a 'you are not the boss of me' type hissy-fit. You should see it as; my woman can not get enough of me and wants me to touch her, or the slightly less cro-magnon but equally valid; my woman wants to feel a sensual connection with me right now.

>>18056139
How the fuck did you get married without growing out of this shit.

>>18056139

back rubs arent beta, they're a normal part of seduction.

did she say 'rub my back' or 'rub my back?'

was it sweet or demanding?

>doesn't want to touch his own wife

i don't understand. why did you marry her?

>>18056139
How did someone as insecure as you get married?

>>18056139
Yes you did overreact

Get over the beta alpha thing anon, this shit only applies to dating. Once married what matters is sex, love and balance.

THEY'RE "BACK RUBS" NOT BACK RUBS.

>>18056139
If you think rubbing your wife's back is beta, then there's no help for you. You're fucked.
Spouses are supposed to be friends. She shouldn't have to beg you to rub her back anymore than you should have to beg her to rub your penis or help around the house.
If your "betrothed" isn't your best friend, don't fucking get married.