My room mate is a sort of childhood friend, al most family tier. (we were born the same month, and our mothers are best friends so we basically know each other since forever).
She's quite introverted, except when she's drunk.
Yesterday she fondled my pecs and abs from behind with her had on my shoulder (I don't even lift, barely ottermode desu). To be frank, I popped a boner.
She often wants to cudle when we watch a movie.
She moves around the place in her undies.
But nothing really sexual
I have a gf so it feels wrong to me.
But then again it's never something overly sexual so I'm afraid that if I bring it up it will look like it's me that has the wrong idea...
Should I talk about it with her?
> she fondled my pecs and abs from behind with her had on my shoulder
>nothing really sexual
The only thing more sexual than that would be fondling your dick.Yeah, you should talk to her about it next time she does it.
>>18055962
It was more like a playful thing. She pinched a bit of my skin that was going out of my t shirt. Then she jokingly checked my abs and pecs...
We were both pretty drunk desu
>>18055973
Is she going to playfully and jokingly suck your dick too?
Your girlfriend is actually okay with you living with a girl that you frequently get drink with, and who enjoys feeling you up? It's pretty obvious you two are gonna fuck at some point.
>>18055981
Nah, if things were gonna get sexual it would has happened for a long time. We're 22yo and know each other for the same amount of time
>>18055986
I was already living with her when I met my gf. They get along well, no problems on that side
>asks advice
>ignores all advice
Any woman walking around in her panties in front of you is after you stop being deluded. I pity your gf. Just fucking tell her to put pants on already, if she won't do it in front of her parents why the hell is she putting on a show for you? Move out with your gf and leave the pining roommate asap imo. Keep the drunken nights to your real partner.
>>18056073
When I said underwear, it's a more like boxers she wears to sleep.
I see what you mean though.
I don't want to move in with my gf yet, we date for less than a year
>>18056083
Time to look up new roommates then if she tries to jump you again, or at least warn her first. Flaunting an erection is only going to give her mixed signals. Not to mention she fucking met your gf, I would tear her ass out through her mouth if I were in your gf's shoes. It's such a low move and by defending her actions your only encouraging that behavior.
>>18056104
I see what you mean, but I'm afraid that if I' bring it up I'll be looking like I'm the one who has lewd feelings.
We've always teased each other a little without it being sexual so I feel like if I'm the one to imply I find it sexual she will believe I want to bone her.
Don't know if that makes sense (english isn't my first language so I try to explain the best I can)
>>18056083
I've lived with a female roommate who wanted to fuck me before. I can spot this coming from a mile away
>>18056115
Next time she does it just politely remind her how much you love your gf.
>>18056131
I see, I'll do that
>>18056125
What were the signs?