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TL;DR version of the story of how I met him.
> Online dating site
> He asked me to dinner
> After 3 dates he cut me off
> Called me psycho
> Stopped texting again
> Texted me religiously for 3(or 4?) weeks every Friday of Saturday night asking if I wanna come over
> I told him no
> Recently (past 2 or 3 weeks) finally gave him a chance
> Told me he missed me and wanted to see me
> Asked me to brunch
> Go over for brunch
> He wanted to cuddle with me in his bed
> We cuddle
> He starts unbuttoning pants
> Tell him no and attempt to leave
> He asks," are you serious? *scoff*"
> WOW " are you throwing a tantrum becuase you didn't get what you want?"
> "no"
> Told him not to text me back and left
These texts are after what happened.


See where the numbers are? I will explain each one.

NUMBER ONE: He is a lawyer so he has a pretty busy schedule. Makes really good money. (This is important for later on)

NUMBER TWO: Yes, I ended up having ONE drink with him. That same night he gave me the drink he suggested I take another cup to drink. (Kind of came off date rape-y because of how he said it and how he kind of looked at me. (Also could of been because he was drunk))

NUMBER THREE: He offered me gas money. One-fricken-hundred dollars. He is rich so of course, losing 100$ isn't a big deal to him. But to me? I didn't want him to use it against me later on if I did take the 100$. He is a lawyer! I have to be extra cautious of my actions no matter how innocent they may seem.

NUMBER FOUR: So he does check Snapchat, but he doesn't really text me often. See the time difference? One week to even try to send me a text.

When I went over to spend the night at his place he was on his phone after we watched a movie together. Is it normal? Also, what should I do? He hardly communicates with me and I don't know what to think anymore. I talk to my mom about him sometimes and she tells me that he might be having an affair.

[Will proceed with story in next post.]
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>>18054007
Proceeding on....

The paranoia my mom puts into my head drives me nuts so I just ignore it and try not to push myself or my feelings onto him.

Am I to needy? Should I spend time by myself before getting into another relationship? Is it self-destructive to get into a relationship with him if I still haven't moved on from my last relationship?

Please help me. I have tried everything. When I take action all on my own, they have negative outcomes.

I will post more questions as they come up. I can't think of any right now..my mind is racing.
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>>18054007
Don't need to see more story or to read your picture. You're a fucking idiot for staying involved with this guy, and it seems obvious that you're going to continue to be an idiot.
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>>18054017
agreed. OP you're a fucking idiot. This guy is an absolute cunt and you're a fool for going along with it.
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fuck him, marry him, get his money, cuck him.

or if you have some self-respect, forget him.
but you won't...cuz you're a slut
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He isn't having an affair. To have an affair he'd have to be in a relationship. He's made it very obvious that what you guys have has no resemblance to a relationship. If the dude is as busy as he says then he's just using you for sex that fits into his schedule.

I don't care how busy you are, you can make the 30 seconds to send a text at least a couple times a day.
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Thank you guys for your input. I have taken everything in to serious considering, and I have cut him off. I am done.
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>>18055153
consideration* I am a cuck
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