/adv/ how do i get rid of oneitis
there's this girl I really like, but I'm convinced that it's best if I don't peruse a relationship with her(mostly because I think she's not into me, and I wouldn't want to break up with her if I somehow manage to make it with her, even though that's unrealistic)
yet I can't help but still fall for her every time I talk to her.
she's in the same department as me in college, so I can't avoid her. and I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out on a date so I can possibly get rejected.
how should I proceed?
fuck her as much as possible while looking for someone better stop being a pussy stop thinking about love be a man
>>18034150
ignore this, drop subtle hints and very lightly test the waters, see the reactions if you dont get positive responses or she doesn't answer straight forward, forget about her and look for someone else to fall for.
Smoke pot and jack off thinking about her!!! Oh my goddddddd anon holy shit haha! I'm high as balls
>>18034178
Already done.
Shes not into me.
I cant get over her though
What should I do?
>>18034227
Overtime you'll get over her, speed this up by stop seeing her (if you get literally nothing from her, your feelings will diminish) and find someone to replace her. It will require more effort on your part then what you have led us to believe and it will only be as hard as you make it.