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My gf found out that I talked with my friends about that how she sucked me off. She now thinks that I have only used her and that I have never loved her like her ex did to her, she says she wants to brake up. Is there anything i can do? Please give me some advice
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>>18031757
tell her to get over it. Also, you have to be 18 to post on this site
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>>18031757
Probably don't go around calling her a cheap whore.
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There's a lesson here for you anon of why gentlemen don't kiss and tell: it's about covering your own ass and making you look better than you are. However if she wants to break up over this it's her call. Of you can express to her that she's more than a passing fling and that you want something solid and long term with her, she might reconsider. But how you convince her of that we can't help with, as only you know her. Realistically, it sounds like you're young and inexperienced and you have botched this relationship. Better luck next time.
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>>18031757
>Is there anything i can do?

Besides saying "I'm sorry, not gonna happen again"? No, nothing you can do. It's her choice now if she wants to break up or not.
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Not really. You have to realize that your friends actually don't love your girlfriend or even feel tenderness/sympathy for her perhaps, so by giving them this info there is no way of knowing what they take from it. Eg you could tell them that she gives great head, feeling like you gave her a compliment and didn't go into private details. But once your back is turned, they go "hah, who knew that that mouthy bitch of OP was a great cocksucker?"
Would you want them to talk about your girl like that? Probably not. And she won't want that at all.

You violated her privacy and what's more, in popular culture fellatio is usually depicted as a slutty/degrading act for a woman. There's no way you can undo this, you can tell her you never thought of it like that, will never do it again etc. But other than that you'll have to wait for her to potentially forgive you.
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>>18031757
LoL. Tell her she can tell her gfs how well you suck cooch
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>>18031838
>mouthy bitch
Lol, actually meant to say *mousy bitch, but this works as well.
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>>18031841
Not really the same thing. Man who's great at eating a woman out = attentive, satisfying lover. Woman who's great at giving head = a good candidate for porn.

It's unfair but this is how it's seen. There's a reason cocksucker is a common insult and pussymuncher (or whatever) isn't.
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>>18031757
Tell her that you're sorry, that you weren't thinking and that you told them because she's so amazing. You have to turn it into something good. Women like to know that they make you crazy, that they're better than other women.

Be a man, tell her that it won't happen again, and buy her flowers, take her to dinner. Tell her with or without sex you want her
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I'll be that guy and ask you what the hell you were even thinking talking about this with other people. Apparently you can't be trusted with any even remotely sensitive/intimate/private information as you will make sure as many people as possible will know it.
If I were your gf I'd never ever do anything with you in private again if that thing could embarass me if other people came to know it, since you don't see any problem at all laying out aspects of my personal and private life to the wider public.
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erm....I don't know man, this seems like an issue with her though? Unless you said something along the lines of
>my gf is basically a suck machine, that bitch sucks me dry whenever I please.

Otherwise, GFs and BFs talk about sex with friends. If it was a casual, "yeah she blew me, it was nice", then I don't see the issue. Your GF sounds painfully insecure. Maybe this is for the best.
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>>18031851
In R*ssian culture it is
Pussy eating is seen as more gay than fucking a man in the ass
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>>18031838
you act like most people don't talk about sex with their SO with friends.
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>>18031757
she should break up with you idiot. guys talking fucking and sucking this or that bitch is fine but leave your current gf and detail out it is disrespectful and she'll be humiliated whenever your friends are around
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>>18031962
>>18031967
> Otherwise, GFs and BFs talk about sex with friends.
> you act like most people don't talk about sex with their SO with friends.
Not everybody's friend circle is full of degenerate low-education hillbillies where you have to boast about deeply intimite aspects of other people's lifes to stay cool.

What happens in the relationship between me and my gf is no one else's business, most certainly not when these people actually know me or gf (/adv/ or other circles where this is basically impossible are a different discussion).
My first relationship was back in my country's equivalent of High-School/College, with a girl who was in my class, had just turned 16, was a bit religious and for some reason did not want to have sex yet at that age, which wasn't good for our relationship's health. Anyway, I was exceptionally pissed off when she talked about these details to the people she hung out with, aka my classmates, without my consent. Just, no. This influences the way these people think about me.
Families have the same braindamages, when sometimes last year my mother told my grandma that I had considered suicide many times that year, suddenly I received a letter by my aunt. What is wrong with these people, zero respect for the life and privacy of others.
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>>18031967
It isn't uncommon for people to not talk about it, in my experience. It's not uncommon to do so either, but that's hardly relevant to OP, all that matters for him is whether or not his girl cares. At the very least it was disrespectful of him to not check with her before sharing explicit details with friends.

Also, you can talk about sex with your SO without throwing in details. Or not throwing in details that put her in a much more exposed position than him. Eg I would tell friends that I got pounded hard MUCH quicker than I'd tell them how enthusiastically he ate out my ass. I don't want anyone to look down on something I love for doing something I love and you have no control over that anymore as soon as you share it. It's honestly a matter of loyalty to me.
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>>18031757
Apologize and really mean it. At this point it's up to her if she wants to break up so be prepared for that reality OP.
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you're just going to have to talk to her (on phone or preferably in person) and make sure she knows how sorry you are and stupid you feel
i know a couple who broke up for many months because of the exact same situation but they did get back together again
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