She left me for her best friend

In a long time, a long long time, you will realize you dodged a bullet.

how many anons don't come here and talk about how long they were married, 5-10+ years, only to watch it all fuck up.

in your case, she probably left in a few months, few years? could have been a lot worse. a LOT worse.

took me 5+ years to get over my first true love, that I lost my virginiy to, etc.

looking back, she was desperate to move on, and cared very little about what I was enduring. so, years lost living in the past. years thrown away on a person who simply WASN'T there.

those who love you, will be THERE. don't beat yourself up too badly. if it gets worse, take an anti-depressant a few times.

>>18030399
it is not healthy to depend on other people like this. that is called a toxic relationship. this is why you hear the advice that you have to love yourself before expecting others to love you.

no girl wants to be your second mother. they want to be with a man. fix yourself.

>>18030399

better than staying w/you and just cheating on you. or double playing.

just accept that you arent what she wanted. its fine. people want what they want and its not going to be a reasonable/rational thing. moving on will take time but you will do it. we are here for you

>>18030422
Thank you. I appreciate your kind words. I don't know if she did cheat, but part of me wants to believe that she did. Maybe it's because I'm angry and I want to make her the biggest piece of shit in the universe so I can feel somewhat better about myself.

>>18030434
I guess. She just seemed to give up on us all of a sudden.

>>18030440
She's still who and what I will always want. My heart is broken. Thank you for being there. I wish I could see the faces of who reply to me so nicely.

>>18030464

you want someone who left you for someone else? doesnt seem healthy. if she were really what you wanted, she would have chosen to be with you. since she didnt, she isnt.

the heartbreak is normal. youre going to miss her and feel like shit. it will take some time but it will pass. there are women out there who are better matches. take the time to meet some, when you are ready.

>>18030483
I just feel lonely, really. It's still fresh to me that we broke up so I'm just struggling to get over what happened. I'll recover, I just don't know how or when.

I feel like I'm done with "girls" for now and I'm tempted to find an older woman for some fun. I mean, if she can sleep with another guy two weeks after leaving me then why not do the exact same? Maybe I'll feel better. My sex drive is high because of my anti-depressants.