>Have gf that frequented /r/dirtykikpals before we got together
>Previously had a discussion about sexting, and that we both shouldn't do it from now on
>I've done it since then. Felt bad and quit. Didn't get caught
>Notice she was on reddit on her phone, and when I walked into the room she jumped and closed the app
>I want to go through her phone (I know her passcode) and see what she was doing
Is it immoral to go through her phone to check and see what she was doing? I wouldn't get mad at her if she was, because I've done it myself. I would most likely try to have a conversation with her and figure out what both our issues are.
>>18027729
yall are gross but it sounds minor. sure this thing isn't traditionally loyal, but it's not cheating. it's not like anybody's genetics/spermoids are going to be transmitted through the internet.
>>18027731
True, but obviously there are issues with the relationship that needs to be addressed. So would you go through her phone or not?
>>18027734
>go through her phone
man why do you think that is a good idea
>>18027734
You might as well flush a relationship once you get to that point.
>>18027744
I don't think applying your own standards to other ppl applies, especially not in this case. they might just be immature.
>>18027745
I'm 22 and she's 23, but this is our first RS.
>>18027729
>>I want to go through her phone (I know her passcode) and see what she was doing
>I would most likely try to have a conversation with her and figure out what both our issues are.
Aaaaaannd you can't talk to her about it to her face--rather than doing shit you have to ask if is shady (pro tip: if you gotta ask, it probably is)--why?
You're not 15 anymore dude. Own up.