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Falling for a 16 year old

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Hey adv. I'm 29 and I've completely fallen for a teenage girl I met on 4chan. She lives fairly near me an we're both eurofags. So it isn't technically illegal but...

I still realise it seems wrong on some level and I feel like shit as a result. I actually want to be with this girl. She's mature for her age and beautiful and no other man has had her. She's about as fresh as fresh can be.

What should I do? Should I just go for it?
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>>18020917
Do it.
/guy who actually did it
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>>18020917
even though you met her on an anime imageboard, remember that she is a filthy inferior 3d woman
she doesn't deserve you
only the beauty and purity of 2d waifus is worthy
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>>18020921

tell story
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>>18020917
If it isn't technically illegal, what's the problem then?
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>>18020917

If I was you I would definitely do it

This is what guys dream of

If you waste this you are a ball-less faggot
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>>18020917
You're just on the verge of it being wrong dude. 13 year difference. Almost double her age and almost old enough to be her father. Also if you've already lost your V plates then fuck off asshole.
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>>18020935
She was an 18 yr old american girl, i was a 26 yr old swedish guy.

Actuslly i met her when she was 16. We talked for 2 years.

I rented an apartment in D.C. through air bnb, and we met up and had sex there for a week. We were both virgins.
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It probably won't work out because you are in very different stages of your life. At some point she will want to explore. Also friends and family can be harsh with such an age difference at her age.
I'm not saying don't enjoy the time you can have together. Mentor her, show her how to be successful in life. But don't turn this into a weird fantasy and be crushed emotionally if it doesn't turn out the way you imagined.
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>>18020980
None cares if it will work. Its about having fun and having sex with a young girl instead of being a depressed loser.
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>>18020970
That's definitely NOT the same situation, your age difference is actually reasonable and not creepy at all. OP is almost 30 and wants a teenager.
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>>18020987
OP does sound like he cares at least a little though.
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>>18020917
Go for it man. Just don't fuck her or anything, or be discrete about it if you do.
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>>18020917

Be aware the everyone who does this, EVERYONE, says that the yonger one is, "very mature for their age." If you are willing to accept the consequences if things go bad, go for it.
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>>18021007
She's not mature for her age, OP just wants to get his dick wet, which is completely understandable
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>>18020995
Im his age now though, and i would not bail if the opirtunety presented itself (im a forever alone fagget), but i do not activley seek it. I still find many 16 yr old girls very attractive. Maybe im a hebephile, but i think most men would agree these girls are fuckable, age and morals aside.

And shes still going to have sex with jocks, so why not let her have a romance with an older, more responsible guy?
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>>18021007
24 and 15 back then, only kissing
I told myself the same lol
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>>18021013
I don't think being attracted to a 16 years old is creepy, some girls look the exact same as other 19/20 year olds. Pursuing a romance with them is. No matter how mature OP says she is, she is inexperienced and gullible (mainly if she's talking with a man almost twice her age) and he's even worse than those jocks for using her like that. The jocks at least have the excuse of being dumb hormone filled teenagers.
Also, OP is not more responsible if he's on 4chan and talking about going on a teenager.
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>>18020995
Hi femanon. You know absolutely nothing about me or her. I care about her. I'm like a father to her.
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>>18021030
What are you actually protecting her from?

Getting raped by op? I dont think thats goinh to happen.

Having a bad heartbreak? It happens to us all.

Getting bullied by others because shes skerping around with older men, well maybe, but its not ops fault society has these norms and unwritten laws.
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>>18021068
I hate my phone.
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>>18021045
Way to make it even creepier, OP.
Also, do I really need to know more than that? You talk about her like she's an object your going to buy in a supermarket "She's about as fresh as fresh can be". All you have said about her is that she's mature and beautiful. She's a teenager that comes to 4chan, OP, come on.
I understand that innocence can be appealing, but there is a limit. A relationship with her can only go 2 ways:
It will be extremely short termed, and you will end up corrupting a teenager who isn't ready yet.
It will be long termed and you two will end up married with children. Problem is, while you're ready to have that kind of life, she's still 13 years younger and will have other needs and just generally be in a different place in her life. You will either have kids when she's too young to have kids or when you're too old to have newborns. You will never be economically equal and she will end up depending on you in unhealthy forms - to a point of destruction.

I'm probably a little biased because my mother is 10 years younger than my father and that has crippled her life in so many I can't even count. She left college, she had me when she was 18, she stopped working to take care of me and, honestly, she was pretty bad at doing that. I've also seen close friends basically ruined because of older guys too so eh. I'm 19 myself, it's not like I'm the spectacle of reason.
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>>18021076
That's not OP, that's me you dumb imbecile fuck.
Go die in a fire fucking white knight,.
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>>18021068
So trying to stop an adult to use a teenager is something bad? Also, I've never seen someone being bullied because they were together with someone older.
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>>18021076
Actually there is also the possibility that she will leave OP broken because she was indeed mature enough to not take this too seriously.
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>>18021082
What purpose does it serve? Is it to protect the teen, and in what way is the teen protected?

Would you do the same if it was a 16 yr old guy and a 29 yr old woman?
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>>18021076
Funny thing is she's already old enough to have children biologically and if we did have kids we'd wait until she was 19 or so.
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>>18021079
Well, I assumed you were OP because you attacked me for thinking that a 13 years difference is creepy when one involved is a teenager.
I already stated that your case is completely different.
Also, really? You're almost 30, man. Act like it.
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>>18021106
Where did you read that im 30?
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>>18021097
What do you mean in what way is the teen protected? I just argued that. And if you're going to come off and say that way I write has no effect on anything then just go on and criticize the whole existence of /ad/ as a whole.
And of fucking course I would. It's not as common but it's just as morally wrong.

>>18021100
Being old enough to have children biologically means shit. Some girls have their periods when they are 12, does it make it right?
So basically the same as my mother, then?
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>>18021121
Here:
>>18021013
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>>18021130
Where?
Im 24,
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>>18021131
I thought you were referring to OP when you said you were the same age as him.
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>>18020917
>What should I do?
J-j-j-jam it in
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>>18021127
>Being old enough to have children biologically means shit. Some girls have their periods when they are 12, does it make it right?

So her having kids at 19 or 20 is somehow morally abhorrent to you? You don't even know anything about her.
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>>18021030
Why do you consider it inexperienced and gullible to be attracted or liking older men? Do men their own age never treat them as if they are inexperienced and gullible?

I would argue that yes she is inexperienced, but only because of age and lack of relationships, this is natural. Gullible? Maybe but that's an assumption. If they are both of legal age of consent as chosen by the state, and other are consenting I do not see any issue, even on moral groups and not law. Too many people confuse personal preference with "she's being manipulated!!!". Sure that may be the case, but you need evidence.

Good luck op.
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Is the pic related?
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>>18021076
>you talk like her like she's an item ina market!

Yea gotta admit that line from op was odd.

>muh corruption

Wtf did you mean by this? Losing her virginity? Fuck I guess we are all corrupted, it's not like some people pop their cherry earlier than others. And 16 I'd not far from the avg.

>you wi be in different places in life! Economically and emotionally! Dpendancy will be a problem!

Disregard this op, these are all issues I see daily on /adv/ this I standard relationship stuff all couples deal with. Yes you can have kids when she is ready. Jonathan Tyler sired children IN HIS 70s

>the rest

>anecdotal evidence.
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>She's mature for her age

Listen to me
LISTEN TO ME
There is NO SUCH THING as a mature 16 year old girl.
NO such thing

Here is what you should take from this. Realize that the attractive qualities you find in this girl are magnified times 100 in a real independent mature woman your age.

Don't feel like you have to settle for the younger ones. The ones that are just right for you are still out there. You just have to find them.
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>>18020995
18 and 26 isn't too much of an age difference?

I'm 18 and I work with a 22 yr old girl whom I've been hanging out with and talking to for about a year or two now. A few weeks ago I told her how I really felt and she brushed me aside and essentially said she was too old for me.
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I don't understand why you're asking, you're going to do what you want based on what you want to hear and then regret it. Make another thread when things go bad or her parents find out and attempt to get you arrested/life hell so I can say I told you so.
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>>18021461
you're just getting started in college and she's just now most likely getting finished and started on a career. you're both in two different places, that's what she means by being too old for you. She values different things.
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How is it even possibe to meet on 4chan? I dont get this
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>>18020917
Wait two years
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>>18020917
report her to the mods and get her banned from here until she's 18. This is place will ruin her "freshness"
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>>18022436
Why does 4chan fuck girls up so much?

It seems like femanons are basically completely deranged. Slutty. Crazy fetishes etc.
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>>18022441
Man 4chan doesn't fuck people up, they're fucked up already before coming here
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>>18022457
No the girls on 4chan have been fucked if they came here in their teens. Too much exposure to pornography and stuff.
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>>18022462
Nah they were social outcasts already otherwise they wouldn't have ended up on this weeb hell hole
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She'll fuck you over and you'll feel dumb you fell for a 16 years old.
>tfw did that too, although I was in my early twenties
>she found a boyfriend in her area a month before I was supposed to come
>already had tickets booked
I still went there and just changed plans to couchsurfing, had good time, but learnt to not take teen girls seriously.
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>>18022441

Has it occurred to you that you might just be an insecure baby that has no business judging the way other people live their lives?
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>>18022493
Mind telling us how many men you've slept with?
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>>18022497

Only if you go first.
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>>18022529
I have slept with a grand total of 8 women, all of them after the age of 22.

Your turn.
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>>18022534

I meant men.
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>>18021301
Don't think so, I have the OP pic saved from a few months ago. Think I found it on /soc/
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Jesus Christ OP.

You are almost 30, just fucking look at kids with her age, hell, even 18 years old are childish as fuck.

How can you even have something in common with her?

Seems to me that all you have is sexual attraction and nothing more.
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>>18022696
Mad whore is mad.
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>>18021617
4 years? What a load of bullshit
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>>18022696
Let's say they have nothing in common, what if they both have sexual attraction for each other, is this immoral? If they are both consenting individuals I don't see a problem
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>>18020917
>So it isn't technically illegal

You don't seem to understand Age of Consent laws too well.
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>>18023094
Oh look a whore.
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>>18023107
Nah actually a fairly bitter male virgin actually.

As you can see in my post I don't call him out for wanting to hook up with a teenage girl but just call him out for having a limited understanding of Age of Consent laws.
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>>18023117
> actually
> actually

Ha I'm fucking retarded.
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