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Is this girl into me?

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So I met this girl on tinder and have been on two super casual dates. Lunch two weeks ago and drinks last night. She is shy and English isn't her first language and I'm struggling to tell if she is into me or just killing time.

We have a lot in common and she seems to laugh at some of the stuff I say. But something in the back of mind is telling me she is way out of my league and that she isn't really into me.

She leaves everything to last minute and I asked her if she wanted to go out on Valentine's Day and she said maybe I'll let you know.

How do I proceed how do I know if she is into me.
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Did you kiss?
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>>18019876
No but that is down myself not exactly the most confident it and I started to doubt myself throughout the night only been with one girl before so not an expert on his stuff.
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Just tell her you want to actually have a relationship and see what she says.
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>>18020205
Golly, no. This is the 21st century western world--you kiss, fuck many times, and THEN ask about a relationship.
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>She leaves everything to last minute and I asked her if she wanted to go out on Valentine's Day and she said maybe I'll let you know.
There's a chance she's a genuinely busy person with a lot of uni and work things going on. But really it's more likely she's not into you and just sees you as a casual friend.

Generally if someone doesn't make any effort to see you, they're not into you. The Brad-Pitt-rule works as a general rule of thumb:
>Imagine that instead of you, Brad Pitt had asked this same woman out. Would she use the same excuse with him? If Brad Pitt asked her on a date, would she still say she had to study or was going to the movies with friends that night? Nope. She would have dropped pretty much anything and everything to be able to accept a date with Brad.
>Now you’re not Pitt obviously. But if a woman is interested in you, she will drop her other plans to be available to go out with you.

Who is usually initiating conversations and dates OP?
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>>18020285
I'd say we both start conversations equally. Like she will message me at work and she organised the first date.
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>>18020285
Not OP but I get what you mean but it's very rare to find someone that drops existing plans to hang out with someone, god knows I don't do it even when I really like someone.
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>>18020412
The dropping plans part is extreme, but you get the point. They'll act like they care. Even something as simple as "Would love to hang out, but I have plans for the night. I am available this coming weekend though!" shows some enthusiasm for actually wanting to see you without necessarily making your company their absolute top priority.
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>>18020429

Never really dropped plans but she has arranged stuff and times to fit in a date.

Like she was busy yesterday but then we arranged to meet up after and our first meeting was her moving the day forward.
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>>18020252
man I missed this boat
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>met her on tinder
dropped
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>>18020768
why?
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>>18020252
Fuck.
What a worst time to have a crush.
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