Okay serious question, I have a gf and I've been with her

There's no problem with what you're doing.

Work creates bonds like no other. You probably have a "work" wife.

sounds like semi cheating, if your gf did this with her co worker how would you feel?

Ask your girlfriend, not us. If you're afraid to even do that, then you have your answer.

Does your girlfriend know about this? If so, go by her reaction. If not, and you've not told her or you've hidden it because of guilt, you know what the answer is.

>>18019525

This. All you're doing to setting yourself up to be in a position where you have the option to make the wrong choice when it presents itself.

Thats what a rationalising child does, not a decent human being who is owning their actions.

>>18019475
When I'm with a girl I am committed to, I give compliments more freely and flirt with other girls at work more than I usually would. It's like normally I have to worry that they may think I'm coming onto them, but when I let everyone know I'm taken I feel comfortable being friendlier with them.

I think you are the same as me. It's just nice to be nice to girls you know/work with.

What is funny is that if I'm single I'm far more reserved because I don't want to give the wrong signals.