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How to locate introverted SO's?

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Used to be a hermit. Now I've learned social skills and enjoy going to parties; going crazy etc, bit I'm still a hermit at heart.

I want to be able to find introverted girls that are primarily into introverted things like media consumption and creation, as opposed to going out and socialising a lot. People like that usually have deeper, more meaningful inner lives, and that's what i want in an SO.

Unfortunately these girls by defintion aren't often in social situations, and if they are, they're either hard to connect with because they're uncomfortable in the scenario, or perhaps they're camouflaging, like me and cant be identified.

So how can one find such people (of both genders, i suppose)?
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>>18016911
Online.
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>>18016913
basicly this but introverted girls are usually a pain in the ass from what i have heard, i met one and talked with one for a month and she just lost interest talking with me even though i did not spill my spaghetti, she basicly would only see the messages and not reply to them
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Yeah introverted girls are weird. I would say online, or in groups like Vaporwave Sadposting on facebook.

Most of those fags are introverted.
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>>18016913

Where online exactly?

>>18016969

Sounds like any other type of girl really. Just because they're introverted doesn't mean they won't be emotional decision makers or come from a position of dating abundance. The only difference to me is that I would find them more attractive prospects.
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>>18016969
You're probably just boring or clingy.

I talk to my boyfriend every day because he's fun to be around. We can talk/text for 10 hours a day easily, and we've been doing so for years.
I also talk with most of my friends once or twice a week, but not for many hours in a row or many days in a row. The idea of having to fake interest in small talk for hours, every day makes me cringe.
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>>18016986
>Where online exactly?
Forums, chatrooms, dating sites, interest-related groups. Even fucking 4chan.
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>>18016990
10 hours? No way. How?
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>>18016969
That's because you are a boring normie.
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>>18016911
As an introverted girl with no experience but interested in dating I can say that I have no idea how I would find someone to date except through 4chan.
But I'm too much of a shitter to actually meet with anyone here, and I'm in Europe so I'll probably just stay away from dating.
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>>18017049
Introvert myself for the most part, had introvert ex gf, talked n talked, sometimes we'd just sit there on skype watching each other do stuff. We'd draw, play video games, all while skyping. It was long distance though, so it bombed eventually. But we'd always find some youtube vid or online forum or image or something new to talk about. It wasn't all peaches and cream though, and sometimes having introversion in common with someone can hurt you more than help you. In my case, having so much in common with her, hurt us both a lot more than normal when we argued about serious things. But ultimately she was less like me than I thought.. you can have so much in common with someone, yet one little (and very important) aspect may be off. In our case perseverance, eventually she left.
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>>18017058
lasted months together, but it was rough sometimes. it was my most meaningful relationship to this day though, my most spiritually intimate.
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>>18017066
if we lived close to one another..i think things may have been a lot ...mm..more interesting..a lot more real.. if I could have showed her what I felt for her physically, who knows how long it would have lasted..

my advice is, introvert relationships are probably much much better in person. avoid online if you can.
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>>18017056
Whats wrong with dating in europe?
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>>18017068
Nothing wrong with it, but I don't really go outside and 4chan users are mostly US/UK based.
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>>18016911
Internet
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>>18017072
Feel ya on that.
Dont you have a local chan? Its quite common if i recall correctly.
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>>18017078
No idea, guess I could check that.
But smaller chans are usually shittier.
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>>18017087
Yeah, also with more bitter men overboards.
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The shut in community on steam or the neet general on /soc/ could help you.
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>after years of looking finally find an intelligent cute introvert girl
>very awkward at first but after a while its easy for us to talk to each other
>she has all the same interests as me
>genuinely enjoy spending time with her
>could even see spending my life with her
>she already has a boyfriend

Kill me.
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>>18017105
oh yeah, you think that's some shit? I met one that turned out to be a lesbian.. disappointment is an understatement. long after she gave me her number. even txted her a huge rant once years after that I'm embarrassed to talk about but wow.. it was really too stupid for words this encounter.
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>>18016990
I've just met a girl like this
Have any advice or things you would have avoided between you in hindsight?
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OP here. Yeah, I'm not a believer in purely online relationships. I'm not above *finding* people online though.

I live in New Zealand, a country with just 4.5 million people. So anyway you spin it, it's going to be hard to find niche cultures. On the other hand, we *are* a standard modern western society, so.. Who knows.
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>>18017044
Tons of common interests, same sense of humour, mildly interesting lives.
I just like listening to him, I could sit around and listen to him talk about how annoying his coworker is or how amazing his pokèmon team for hours.
We text pretty much from the moment we part to the moment we're together again, at a slow rate because we're busy doing shit.

>>18017126
Honestly, no.
We have always been on the same wavelength, we're very open and honest to each other. He has some problems with communicating his feelings properly, I tend to be overly dramatic and pessimistic, but nothing that a beer and a brief talk can't fix.
Other than that, we never really had a problem. We just talk a lot, have a ton of fun, have super nice discussion about everything from politics to biology, from math to history, from videogames to literature, from baseball to graphic novels, and never really got bored of each other. We are just best friends.
Wouldn't change a thing.
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>>18016911
Don't bother.
They're even bigger cunts than extroverted girls.
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>>18016986
>>18016996
Any place where you have an identity. So not 4chan
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>>18016911
>Used to be a hermit. Now I've learned social skills and enjoy going to parties; going crazy etc, bit I'm still a hermit at heart.

How old are you? Cos I tend to find people either change their ways when they are young late teens to early 20s or it's just a facade that cool people tend to have.
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>>18016911
Libraries, Malls and yes even parties there everywhere and not difficult to spot. Just look for the wallflowers and talk to them most of them are very introverted and many of them still have there V cards intact. However there's usually something wrong with them and it will take some skill to break there shell open and get them comfortable talking to you. Your biggest hurdle will be getting them to consistently respond to you and be honest with you once that's done there very sweet. I was seeing someone for six months that was extremely introverted and screwed up but i learned a lot from it.
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