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Don't know how to approach a deeper relationship w/bf

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We've been dating for some time, and I'm starting to get a bit frustrated. I want to get past the "hand holding" part of dating, but I'm not sure how to bring it up with him. He's really shy, and I think I'm going to have to be the one to ask first. Any help would be appreciated!!
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Here's a radical idea: why not make a move yourself?
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>>18016295
No duh. Im asking advice for about breaching the subject without sounding like I'm just dating him for his dick
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>>18016315
No words are needed if it's a fucking dude. Just make a move and stop if he seems reluctant. Also make sure to bring protection if he would be worried about that.
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>>18016315
Why do you need to say anything? Just fucking kiss him. If he reacts badly, he's either gay, or you weren't going to get physical with him before marriage, if at all.
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>>18016341
That's what I'm worried about. He seems very...morally upright? I've tried kissing him, but he doesn't let it progress past that
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>>18016356
Then you're not really going to be compatible, are you?
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>>18016357
You're.....probably right. Thank you for your help. I've got some thinking to do
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>invite him to your home
>drink some wine
>dim lights and talk
It's really that easy.
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>>18016375

How old are you two?
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>>18016389
17 and 18, respectively
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>>18016404
You're both very young. These things take time. Not everyone is so desperate to jump right into intimacy at that age. May take months, years even. Just take it easy and don't burn yourself out overthinking.
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>>18016404

Oh, ok.

First of all, be very careful with the advice in here. There's a lot of generalization by angry lonely people. Althou that one about compatibility was a solid question.

The thing is, you should be loving being in a relationship. It's suposed to be fun and positive for the both of you.


Sure, you'll have to learn about yourself and your partner along the way, but should be open to the process as well. It can be Hard, but it isn't suposed to be ultra hard.

Have a talk with him and tell him that that's important to you and listen what has to say about it. And don't be a martyr :)

Good luck
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>>18016433
>>18016426
Thank you for the genuine advice and the kind replies! I think I'm going to follow what you said and take it slow. I really enjoy being with him so you're right; there isn't really any reason to rush things. I'll wait and see how it plays out, and gradually approach those topics
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