Hi /adv/erbs, I am struggling with the knowledge that women

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Hi /adv/erbs,

I am struggling with the knowledge that women aren't interested in me. Walking on the streets or being in clubs and pubs I notice that the longest "eye-contact" is merely a short quick look when they're just looking around.

I have been on a few coffee dates lately, but it's so blatantly obvious I'm in everybody's friendzone - which is okay I guess to some extent, since I do attribute this to my trying not being too needy and maintaining an "indifferent" take on things. It does seem to backfire though. All the meetings that take place are initiated by me and barely anyone texts me.

I am not overly confident about my body. I am tall but very skinny, and a few people hint at me that I could eat more. I was going to join a gym soon... Maybe I am too focused on looks trying to pull off a style that just doesn't suit me?

I would say I am a person to get interested in as I do a lot of things (music, read, hike, sports...) and am generally interested in a lot of things myself. I love to listen to people talk, engage in good, deep talks while having a drink. I laugh a lot, expose my weird sense of humor... I generally talk and open up easier to other guys than females, but it depends on the individual person really.

I see insecure people having relationships. I don't see why I can't have one. I realize I have a childish side on me. When engaging females in a talk, within seconds their eyes start moving across the room and next thing you know they "have to use the bathroom". I must be coming across as kind of needy anyway or creepy even, I don't know.

To be honest, I have no idea what it is that I'm doing wrong, let alone how to improve.