So I dated a girl starting around 2011.
We traveled the world together.
We had a dog.
We had a house.
We were 21 and in "love."
We broke up. Whatever. She wanted to fuck/date chicks she said.
We're not friends on FB, but not blocked.
She's super hot. And really smart. Never told a lie. Which is crazy rare.
She just had an "miscarriage" with the dude she's been dating for like, 6 months?
I've had no idea of these things because I don't stalk my exes.
Anyways, she just called me for the first time in 4 months or something. I didn't answer.
She's been popping up in my dreams almost every night since all of this has happened and I didn't even know of it.
It feels like we can sense each other regardless of whether we're dating or fucking.
We've known each other for 20 years now.
It's tripping me out.
Do I say something to her, or keep the silence? Do I acknowledge the phone call? I don't want to get back together with her, but she is one of those people, if she died, it would hurt worse than almost anyone. I just want to make sure she's okay.
This is plaguing me. I feel like most people would say to just ask if she's okay, but, It's a weird situation.
Advice?
>>18015503
She is in the past and should stay there. Forget about her, she had her chance with you
>>18015519
Yeah, but what if I was the one who fucked it up?
>>18015537
Just recall her, and tell that you were busy or sth, and couldn't answer. I think that's rather insignificant fhing, like f.e. she found your socks in draw. Anyway, you won't lose anything
>>18015545
Well now she's just texted me.
Am I falling in a pit-trap?
Fuck this man, I just went form 0-panic attack in under a second.
I'm just...bleh.
She's probably just off from work because of this stress and I should ignore it.