So my best friend knows a girl really well. He's thinks

>>18011994
You need to get your moral compass adjusted. Don't do it.

She's his best friend, she'll tell him. So you are risking your relationship (it'll end over this, make no mistake) for the mere chance of getting to nail her. Some hot woman you don't even have feelings for.

If you think that's worth it, you need to do some serious introspection.

>>18011994
They're supposed to be just friends. If this makes your friend butthurt, then he's just showing his true colors. You do you--he has no dibs on that ass.

>>18012030
It's not about whether or not OP technically has the right, it's whether or not it's going to cause a shitstorm. It will. This is a hot girl he knew for years and made out with, she's a part of his life important enough to keep around despite his girlfriend having issues with it. The fights and not speaking tell you all you need to know, there's some romantic or sexual desire and jealousy. As does ending up together despite not speaking for "a few years", that's a strong pull.

He IS going to feel sexually territorial over her and it WILL wreck their friendship. His best friend getting further with a girl he 99% likely deeply loves than he ever has in the years he knew her? Or even trying to behind his back? Whether technically or not that's right won't get OP very far.

>>18012035
It doesn't sound like he deeply loves this person. It sounds like he's an idiot that hangs on to the past because people these days don't know when to let go. He's already begun the process in that he has a serious relationship, but he probably doesn't want to feel like a dick and tell the female friend to piss off.

It may or it may not wreck their friendship. I'm not saying he won't be territorial or weird, but if he is, it's not much of a loss.

>>18012039
He is willing to put his relationship on the line for her, he is willing to instantly welcome her back into his life after years of silence and ending things on a bad note.
That he loves her doesn't mean he treats her like you typically think someone will treat their loved ones. Or that he's not being a scummy ass by keeping her around despite his relationship.

I'm not saying OP should necessarily value this friendship a lot, just that it's going to be nuked if he goes for this girl and that's what he should take into consideration.