Alright, so I have to break up with my boyfriend.
I know he'd rather not fuck me, and I know he doesn't give a shit about me. I'd rather not live with someone who barely a year in has quit fucking me and would rather masturbate to porn. If there were a way around this, that'd be tops, but there isn't because he won't even entertain conversation about it.
Problems. I live with him. He's in a high stress job and in graduate school. He can't afford to pay rent by himself.
If I just walk out and give him the place he will either be rendered homeless, or unable to finish school. It would put him under high stress.
Should I wait until this quarter is over to give him some time to figure his shit out?
>>18009369
your call, id break up with him and just give him notice. keep in mind that porn addictions very real and while i dont blame you for leaving him, sometimes love means staying and working with someone, but if he cant entertain the conversation theres that.
>>18009369
How about you start out with talking to him about your issues? Maybe he can give you some dickings if you tell him how much you crave his cock.
Also, 1 year and already living together? Way too early
>>18009390
When it's time to start living together?
>>18009390
Yeah, I thought so too, but he insisted since we apparently hung out all the time anyway. Whoops.
I said in the post that he doesn't entertain conversation about it. He makes excuses or says porn is better. I do enjoy his company, but I am not trying to make a habit of hanging around someone who prefers porn over fucking me.
>>18009369
>he'd rather not fuck me,
He probably doesn't think he has time.
>He's in a high stress job and in graduate school
This is why.
>>18009433
He has time to jerk off to porn
Sounds like he wanted a mom and not a girlfriend
>>18009444
it takes like 5 minutes tops to JO. Fucking is like at least 15-30. plus it's usually at the end of the day when you just want to sleep, or it would be interrupting one of the aforementioned important tasks.
>>18009369
You know. It's great u consider this. Really. Glad not everyone out there are selfish fucks