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How to start talking to a girl in my class

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So this is a pretty straight forward situation. Girl in my class, she's cute, I wanna go on a date with her and have a nice private one on one conversation. Have never talked to her before however she has accepted my friend requests on both Facebook and Instagram.

My question is how exactly do I approach her once we all get up and leave class.
"Hey, you know who I am right? I added you on so and so. This is a little funny but would you wanna get lunch sometime and talk for a bit?" Is that too straight forward? how would you guys approach this?
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Grab her by the pussy.
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you should play it casual, say "hey, wanna grab a coffee/lunch together?"

that in itself already implies you want to talk with her anyways. unless you're really attractive, that extra garble will creep her out/mark you as desperate or awkward.
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>>18007693

Have you ever talked to her? Does she even know your name? Do you know anything about her besides how hot she looks? For example, do you know if she is even single?
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>>18007693
>"Hey, you know who I am right? I added you on so and so. This is a little funny but would you wanna get lunch sometime and talk for a bit?"
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>>18007703
I haven't talked to her once. I guess she added me back because we do look at each other in class sometimes. I've judged her based on her posts and on her close friends, (whom I know) She is very sweet in my book hence why I'm seeking advice since I do value her. I'm pretty sure she's single and if not I'll find out pretty soon most girls tend to mention a bf if they can tell that the guy their talking to is obviously interested.
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>>18007718
go up to her and ask something about class. doesnt matter what it is, not important.

then end the convo asking her to join you for lunch.
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>>18007718

What you have is a "crush". Unless you are 15 move on and leave her alone. Try something if you meet at a party or some shit, though.
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Be confident, but not a douchebag. Be yourself, but behave your best. Be a beta, but don't be a faggot.
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>>18007737
All of these situations start with a crush. Unless you have a mutual friend who coincidentally introduces you two and your first time meeting them occurs around conversation and not just looking at each other. I gotta initiate somehow.
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>>18007747
>All of these situations start with a crush.

Not really. You might meet and hit it off as you say in the second sentence of your post. As a matter of fact, that's how it usually goes.

Here's the thing: If all you can say is ·You are pretty, let's go out", then be ready for rejection. You are very probably gonna get a "no" in that situation.
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>>18007740
this. Never pu tyourself down. never try to get her to pity you.
if she doesnt want to talk to you or eat with you, you ignore her. Find a different girl in the same class to talk to. watch first girl get jealous.
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