Hey guys, I want to finger my girlfriend. She's a virgin

She'll tell you when she's ready.

Not all women can get into penetration/fingering. Hell, most women find extreme difficulty getting off to penetration alone.

What you can do is try fingering her while you're stimulating the clit. Do not do anything you haven't discussed though. Don't try and surprise her or anything.
You might find you just have to work together and experiment. But if she doesn't want to experiment, then respect her wishes.

>>18004517
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Fingering the hole isn't as good as a good clit rubbing. You should be rubbing her clit instead of poking her hole

Yeah, heck I sure as hell don't want to do it either if she's not ready. She just tells me she really wants it but it hurts. So is there a way to lessen the pain? I don't want her to have an extremely painful time with fingers, or she'll never want to try the real thing. Thanks.

>>18004537
I do, I love eating her and I'm planning to finger+eat her.

>>18004549
>>18004562
That's one way. I mean, fucking the vag with fingers is awesome too, but only if they're getting something on the clit simultaneously most of the time

The pain is probably from her hymen, I never popped a cherry like that but I think the pain will only fade when it's gone

Can I ask why you don't want to have penetrative sex? once the cherry is popped you don't feel pain from fingering.

>>18004549
Does she have multiple orgasms?
I find I'm not really wet enough for any form of penetration until I've cum at least once.

But, I'm also the same as your gf. I've never had penetrative sex, but any amount of fingering has always been somewhat painful for me. I've decided next chance I get, since I'm single, I'm just gonna bite the bullet and do it.
What everyone's always told me is that the pain is coming from being unable to relax properly, because I'm nervous about it. But I know myself, I'm never not gonna be nervous about it until I just do it and realize it's not the end of the world.
If she's down for it, maybe after trying other things, see if she'll fight through the pain just to see if it gets better.

>>18004638
Her clit is so sensitive, only thing that can touch it is my tongue and I can only rub it with my fingers if she has her panties on. She gets multiple orgasms sometimes by clitoral stimulation. After she cums that way, she needs to put her legs straight, and by doing so, 30% of the time she gets another orgasm. Thanks for your response, it helps me.

>>18004638
Good luck, I hope it feels great for you, because I know many women don't get off of penetrative sex. And a lot of women's no. 1 is still being eaten.

>>18005259
Hah damn, your gf and I are so alike it's scary. Same here with the hyper sensitive clit. Finding a goddamn vibrator that's lowest setting isn't jackhammer is fucking impossible lol.
I find that rubbing directly around, but not on, the clit sometimes works.
>>18005275
Ah, if only I could get my hands on a guy who doesn't find the idea of going down as disgusting as eating a bowl full of maggot infested shit.
Been eaten once, but it was by a very sloppy drunk who I'm pretty sure regretted it in the morning, because when he was asking me to fill in the pieces of what happened last night there was a pang of horror in his eyes when I told him, even though he said it was fine.

Still tho, sloppy drunk or not, best sexual experience I've had with a man.

>I was wondering if it would be a good idea to slowly put my finger in her when/while she's cumming?
'Nother femanon here and I'd say during climax is the easiest way to take something painful, and it could be really pleasurable if ok time it right.