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Wrong to break up over sex?

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We only have sex 1-3 times a week and I have to initiate. She's not into blowjobs, tuggies, sexting. We started living together. So it feels awkward masterbating. I have to do it on the toilet or when she's asleep next to me if I absolutely must, neither enjoyable. It's causing unbearable sexual frustration to me. I tell her and she looks down on it like I'm complaining about something petty. Is there no way to save this 3 year relationship?
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>>18004021
>I have to do it on the toilet or when she's asleep next to me if I absolutely must
Says who?
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>>18004021
Why do you post OP. You know thus thing isn't going to magically fix itself. You have to break up OP
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>>18004026
My boner and pint of jizz
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I had no sex in my relationship for two years until I broke up. Do what you must, you'll have less sex after it.
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Its not bad to break up over sex
Youre sexually incompatible
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>>18004021
>We only have sex 1-3 times a week
>3 times a week
>only

nigga
that's a pretty decent amount of sex.
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>>18004153
I should say that's at best. More like once a week. Currently it's been over a week.
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>>18004021
I have this problem too, but it's my bf who doesn't want sex all the time. He did at the beginning and we fucked 3-4 times a day, but while I still want that, he's happy with 3 times a week. He also fell for the no porn stuff, and has lost most of his kinks, while I'm still a hardcore BDSM fan.
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Was your relationship always like that? Is it only recently she started showing less interest in sex? A lack of libido can be the symptom of many medical or psychological issue. It is commonly caused by stress or anxiety or depression but it can also be caused by more serious issues. The reason doctors ask about your sex life is because it's important information about your general health. She should worry about it, you should be able to worry about it together, and she should definitely talk about it with her doctor.
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>>18004315
People who stop watching porn or masturbating typically show more interest in interpersonal sex. It is strange that he simultaneously stopped watching porn, stopped being interested in sex and stopped displaying his sexual kinks. Have you considered looking for a medical cause? Something might be bothering him.
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>>18004153
>that's a pretty decent amount of sex.
for you
everyone is different, anon. some people are fine with 1-3x/week, others prefer 1-3x/day. neither is wrong, but compatibility is necessary for a functional relationship.
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>>18004021
Just talk to her about it. You just moved in together you gotta be able to talk about stuff thats bothering you.
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>>18004364
We didn't live together and we're only able to meet 1-2 days a week most of the relationship. We'd have sex when we met. I thought it'd be more if we lived together.
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>>18004021
If you wanna dump her do it. People are retarded if they call you an asshole. If you stay with a girl you don't want to be with to avoid being an asshole, that's what makes you an asshole. She deserves someone who is really into her, and you deserve the same. Personally I would talk it over, but protip: giving a girl some bullwinder about how you feel rejected by her has probably never increased the frequency of sex. I think it's just an evolutionary thing, once women secure commitment from a man they lose sexual attraction to him so they can spend more energy raising the existing kids her body thinks she has. If you wanna get pussy start talking to other girls and make yourself scarce. That would be my advice on fixing the problem. But again, if you wanna dump her, just do it. You both have long lives ahead of you.
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>>18004400
3 times a day. Nigga ain't nobody got time for that shit.
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>>18004381
He stopped a while ago. The tapering off of our sex lives happened later.
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This is something I'm extremely afraid of. It seems to happen to most couples sooner or later.
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Thats plenty of sex desu. Stop being such a pussy. I get high and bust mt fujishima nuts to thick asian porn in my office all the time. Why would she get mad? If she don't wanna smash that day there is no shame. Besides nothing beats a good wank sometimes.
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>>18004545
i do.
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My boyfriend and I only fuck once before my period and once after. 1-3 times a week is amazing.
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>>18005834
my sympathies, anon
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