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18 y/o university student. Probably a sperg. Got out of a 1

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18 y/o university student. Probably a sperg.
Got out of a 1 year relationship about a year ago. Been off-put by the idea of a relationship at this point since. Got too many aspirations and dreams, and not enough time/ money for one right now. But I can't stop thinking about this person. Said I would wait till the perfect person came around but can't tell if I'm feeling this way because of my recent nofap. It's not sexual attraction even. I couldn't fap to her if I tried because too much respect.

Do I ask them out or just leave it? This hasn't been going on for long but idk. Maybe it's just a phase.
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>>17994192

what do you have to lose by askign them out? if its detrimentel after the fact just break up with them
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Don't date while in uni. Buckle down and focus solely on your school life. Getting a career is priority. Plenty of time to play the dating game after
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>>17994838
Its just I know I would enjoy it to the point of prioritising it, but it's more of a short term loss for long term success. Like my previous relationship. I ended up enjoying it but I basically threw away a year of my life now because I could have done so much. Didn't end up going parties, or being a loser, just talked to her all the time. The only thing I remember about being 16/17 is her. Fucked my studies because I'd rather spend time with her. Wasn't worth it now that I look back, but at the moment it was.
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>>17995073
Yeah but at the same time part of me is telling me I should stop being such a sperg. And I mean right now I'm meeting interesting people from around the world. In the future I might end up only knowing people with my subject so that might make things harder. Don't want to date myself, want the person to be complimentary
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>>17995073
But I guess that's fair. At least I'm not the only one who thinks that
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>>17994838
I guess one of my issues is I'm not a short term relationship guy. I've never done it. I'm really bad at time management so would probably end up dedicating a larger amount of time than I should to it
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>>17995103
There are many ways to meet women as an adult. Online dating to someone in accounting. I promise you it won't be an issue. It is much much harder to get a good gpa in a decent degree. Once you have a good job everything in life is possible but beforehand there are a ton of things gating you in dating among other things.

You can see girls, just don't start actual relationships atm
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>>17995115

than kill yourself.... or you know, just fix yourself. whatevers easier.
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