I've discovered two girls, who are friends, are interested in me. I would like to see both of them. However, I'm afraid if I take one out that the other wouldn't want to go out with me out of respect for her friend. Or, that one will be offended that I asked the other out first.
How do I play this?
I have been in a similar situation before. From my experience I chose the one I thought firstly that I could try a real relationship with. The one I was most confident with.
I think it is hard to take but one of them will always be hurt if you make your decision. So I would recommend you also pick the one which you think would be hurt the most if she were not picked.
Depends on the girl, intensity of feelings, etc.
I would only mind if I had intense feelings, my friend knew it, had much less intense feelings, but dated the guy anyway.
I know it's not "right" on my part and that I have no right to a guy I'm not in a relationship with, but I would be upset if my friend was willing to hurt me over a guy she is kind of meh on in the first place. I would not do the same to a friend.