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sexual embarrassment 2017-01-22 11:16:19 Post No. 17980915
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>be me
>sexually sheltered 21 yo femanon
>didn't masturbate till 18
>never allow myself to feel/be sexy, only cutesy
>take mojo upgrade quiz with bf
>find out public fun is mutual interest
>buy remote control vibrator to use solo in order to figure out if it's just a fantasy or something I'm actually interested in
>text bf about toy because I thought it'd be sexy to let him know
>last night, first time seeing each other since taking mojoupgrade quiz
>talk through results
>i'm shy about talking sex stuff, but open up about some insecurities
>get to public fun section
>bf says he wants to take it slow with this stuff (me too!)
>expresses he was "a bit like woah" when I told him about the toy
>tell him it's just for solo use at the moment
>that should be it (and bf is still under the impression it's all ok)
>it's not
>i start to fixate on his reaction
>we have sex
>all the fun stuff I had planned, I can't bring myself to do
>wanted to use some flavoured tingly lube and blow him
>can't cos i'm just thinking about how I feel like I've embarrassed myself
>tried to feel/be sexy and failed
>regress and feel shit
still thinking about it now
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>>17980915
Is there a question here or are you just bragging?
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>>17980937
I want to know how to get over it, I forgot to ask that
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>>17980939
I still don't see the problem. The two of you were a bit out of sync in adventurousness and that led you to be nervous during sex and it wasn't a great moment.
If this is the worst thing that ever happens to you sexually you will be living a charmed life.
You probably did jump the gun in buying the vibe after just one chat about adventurousness, and startled him more than anything. But he'll catch up. The next time the two of you are spending an evening in, put on/in the vibe and casually hand him the controls. See how long he resists.
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>>17980937
>bragging
hmm I read through that and it felt like an embarrassment right? Maybe I'm a guy and I don't get it?
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>>17980955
Some guys on this Singaporean punk rock forum think any admission of a relationship and a sex life is bragging. That's how lonely we are.
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>>17980951
I'm just so sensitive to anything remotely close to rejection and I need to work on it massively
I suppose it's not that bad. I just needed reassurance.
Should I tell him this is how I feel? Or just ignore it and pretend it's not an issue until it isn't an issue?
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>>17981003
Just ask him if jt bothers him, in a respectful manner. If it does, just get rid of it. You don't need toys anymore anyway.
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>>17980915
You are doing fine, just keep fucking your boyfriend and you we be less weird about it. No need to force it too much. If you want to get really degenerate watch porn, that normalizes weird shit way fast.
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