I love calling my gf names during sex (bitch whore, slut, idiot--lol, etc.) and just generally framing her as the submissive one, the inferior one---although I don't really look at her as inferior, and I am actually a nice person outside of the bedroom. It makes it a lot better for me and I feel more "manly". She seems to not mind it, either. She has never said to stop it. In fact, it seems to satisfy her more. But, I always wonder if I am hurting her feelings on some level.
Should I take her silence as a "yes" to this or talk to her about it? I feel like talking to her about it would take a bit of the fun out of it.
>>17979058
>it seems to satisfy her more
you only see what you want to see kek
I think the answer to "should I talk about this thing with my partner or not" is almost always yes.
Why does it have to take the fun out of it? When you're hanging out nonsexually, make it into a conversion about kinks and preferences and what both of you like, want to try, and want to do more of.
>>17979075
Yeeeeeahhhhhhh whateeeever you say there, buddy boy.
>>17979083
Straightforward, will do.
>>17979087
>Yeeeeeahhhhhhh whateeeever
hitting too close lol
>>17979075
Fpbp
>>17979083
This post should be stickied and redirected to for all time.
"Hey /adv, should I talk about this sex thing with my partner?" For fucks sake, yes.
>>17979058
the only problem I see here is
>I have some uncertainty about what I do
not sure what to tell you about that
>I am not sure if she is hurt by it
just ask her??
>>17979097
>>17979104
Remember, you're trolling because you're jealous you'll never get the balls to do the things I do in the bedroom. This isn't fun for you, it's a way of dealing with your inferiority, as much you try to convince yourself and others of this.
>>17979110
you are all just making assumptions and it's false/annoying
>>17979107
Not even sex things, just literally anything. People don't communicate with their partners enough. Communication, openness, honesty. We need more of that all around, here especially.