>So I met this guy at my friends birthday party, kissed then

>>17978952

Yeah. You obviously don't like him if you have doubts about it.

Besides he wants to go out for a party which sounds more exciting than coffe. Coffe is for boring people.

You two dont fit togather.

>>17978952
sorry, what do you need help with?

>>17979013
No, in fact I really like him, but I guess he thinks I'm up for a hook up or so which I don't really into.

>>17979019
I don't know if he's only up for a hook up since he's only wanted to partying. I meant, drinking, wasted bla bla

>>17979023

so let me put it in simple words:
You two have set up a date and you want to abort because he invited you to a party to spend more time togather.

Yeah seems like you dont really need our advice. This son of a bitch thinks he can invite you to do stuff? Call the cops.

>>17979041
Well I just want to hear from you guys if his intention is a hook up or not since I don't want to waste my time for this. Despite the fact that I really like him.
Who would want to spend their time with their date in a night club full of drunken people? That's what on my mind

>>17979054

well you two met at a party and he seems to think that you like that, so he tries to recreate the enviroment where you 2 met.

Just tell him that you dont really like to party or getting drunk and suggest you 2 do something else.

Communication. I heard women are better at this than guys.

>>17979054
also if he wants a hookup why would he want to do something where there are other people around?

>>17979067
This. Exactly. I tried. I told him I'm only up for a coffee or so. He seems like he's not interested that much.
>>17979069 I don't know that's why I'm wondering. Also he always partying and going out on weekend so maybe that why.

>>17979076
>I told him I'm only up for a coffee or so
lol
how did you say that
>i'm only up for a coffee, take it or leave it >:(

>>17979076

>I told him I'm only up for a coffee or so.

cofee seems boring. Like you are giving him 1/3rd of actual date he hopes for.

Still you should go out with him at least once.

>>17979084
He asked me that day if I was going to party with friends and I said no. He said maybe next week, I told him next week is okay and I'm only up for a coffee or tea.

>>17979094
>and I'm only up for a coffee or tea
and fucking?

>>17978952
>Kiss as soon as you met
>Wondering why he won't take it slow & sip tea

Gee OP I wonder why.

>>17979116
I don't do that frequently I must say. Well but I might wrong to keep in touch with the guy I once made out with

>>17979136
Bumped

>>17979013
Parties are for boring people.