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Cousin Coming Out

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Yesterday my 19 year old cousin got engaged to another woman. That side of the family is very traditional and Christian. They know, besides my grandma, but all assumed it was a "phase." Her dad killed himself last year, and she's been latching on to my dad as a father figure... And he's uncomfortable with it.

Anyways, my point is that grandma doesn't know at all, and she's suffering from some bit of dementia and memory loss. She's a hugely conservative Deep South traditional woman, and being told her only biological granddaughter is "going gay" might kill her on the spot... Or will be something she'll need to be reminded of frequently, only to melt down again and again.

I personally would keep this kind of thing quiet to grandma, but I get that she wants to feel empowered.

How can I best support my cousin and dad as she drops this bombshell on the rest of the family, especially grandma? I'm the only liberal one of the whole family besides her.
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>>17978691
has she taken dicks before?
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>>17978695
Tell her she can call me Daddy
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Wait, your cousin wants to come out to your sick grandma?

No wonder she doesn't like dick, she is one. Fucking feminist seeking for "empowerment" at the cost of others well being
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>>17978695

She's had a boyfriend before, but that was in high school and I don't think they had sex. At least she hasn't told me if she has.
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>>17978691
Why the fuck does gams need to know
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>>17978939

She doesn't, but my cousin wants it to be known. I hate to take wind from her sails by saying this, but she's a 19 year old girl who wants to preach about her progressiveness and independence.

I don't doubt the legitimacy of her being a lesbian, but I think she wants to stir the pot.
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>>17978714
you know some girls are lesbian until they have had a good dicking session.
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>>17978993

Okay, I don't really care either way. Soon enough she'll be married, and I'm not gonna work on trying to get a family member to bang someone.

I just wanna get everyone in line to freak out as little as possible.

With me not interested in having kids, her a lesbian, and my other cousin a complete autist, this is basically the end of the family, so I'm sure it'll freak a bunch of people out.
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>>17978983
Try to convince her not to. Cite granny's health. Telling everyone else should be enough empowerment
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>19
>engaged
>wants to "come out" just to boast and hurt her senile old grandma

What the fuck is wrong with your cousin. Talk some sense into her. I understand her dad dying is hard and everything, but she's going to ruin her life and possibly your family.
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>>17979042
>With me not interested in having kids, her a lesbian, and my other cousin a complete autist, this is basically the end of the family
kek Why dont you just poop out a kid and save the line.
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I'm also a lesbian, and half of my family has no idea. I'm fine with it, because I don't feel the need to tell people about my sexuality. And I DEFINITELY wouldn't tell them if they're as conservative as your grandma sounds.
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>>17978691
Threesome with your cousin and her gf.
/thread
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>>17979060
In my opinion people are free to get fucked in the ass, lick pussy etc. but for god sake keep it in the bedroom. No need to force society to accept someone's retarded fetishes. Those fags who "come out" just want attention or want to trigger people because they feel special somehow. I hate special snowflakes so much.
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>>17979101
You're one of the few homos I respect.
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>>17978983
No man, she's not a lesbian. This is a phase.

She's just out to piss everyone off
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>>17979197
Speak for yourself my man. I don't respect queers
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>>17979204
Fuck way better than telling everyone just because you have the need of approval. That's why we have shit like fag marriage and they're pulling this shit on kids. For example in the beginning of the 20th century you were only a fag in your bedroom. Nobody else needed to know and society wasn't fucked up by that shit. Btw what does queer means (besides strange,odd)
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>>17978691

OP, I'm from a very religious family but have stopped being religious myself. I too have a deeply religious, dear old grandma, and to this day I haven't let my grandma know, because it would destroy her. Same thing as your grandma with the dementia too. And I intend to never let her know.

I would seriously talk to your cousin and urge her to not go ahead with her plan, for the sake of your grandma. Urge her to at least wait till your grandma passes away before doing anything like this.
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>>17978691
If she has dementia why does it matter? Even if she's lucid enough to understand she'll forget it in 10 minutes
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Hahaha pics, OP!! Pics or it didn't happen you cockmonster! WA ha
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>>17978691
Don't do it op she loves u.......
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>>17978691
I envy your grandmother. She lived in a time where blacks knew their place and gays didn't exist. She has dementia know so she doesn't have to see the degeneracy happening before her eyes
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>>17978993
>some

Try all.
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>>17978691
>I get that she wants to feel empowered.
She shouldn't be a fucking bitch about it either though
Your grandma barely has her senses about her and this "coming out" bullshit ceremony every faggot does is just cruel to these people.

I suck dick and you know what I didn't do? Announce it to every friend and family member, because it's not their fucking business
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Fucking tell your grandma sounds like a piece of shit anyway if she dies so what. Fuck having your sister hides who she because some fuckhead doesnt like it.
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