>tfw can't cum when someone else is involved
>definitely not in person
>not during phone sex
>not even lewd texting
>can cum by myself without porn in around five minutes
Help? Seriously, this shit is not okay.
>>17977216
need more info plz.
why do you think this happens? do you get nervous? does this happen even with people youve known for a while/have been involved with?
>>17977242
The first time I had sex was six years ago with a girl(male) I met online. I wasn't able to then and thought it was the condom but never had the opportunity to remove that from the equation. I was also very nervous which definitely didn't help. Since then my sex life has been non existent save for fapping. At least until this December when a female friend I met towards the end of summer became more than a friend. We have had a few phone sex sessions and, again, I'm nervous. We just had one that lasted an hour an twenty minutes. I only was able to finish because the call dropped. Now that I'm typing this out it seems like this is probably the anxiety.
Its the nerves
Keep trying and get more experience
You probably are also the type that has to know the person realy well to be able to get off
>>17977251
maybe you should just get drunk and try and phone sex some randoms from soc, just to see its nothing to be nervous about :)
>>17977216
>>17977216
your used to your own touch, and mentality. next time take control.
if she is giving you head, put your hands on her head and move with her.
if she is riding on top of you, put your hands on her hips, and control her.
she is giving you a handjob, put your hands over her, and work with her.
>>17977277
yeah I think so
>>17977288
nah bruh that ain't me
>>17977296
maybe