Is it weird to wonder what kind of porn your friends fap

>>17976746

kinda. but it can also be a bonding experience imo.

i was at a wedding earlier this year and before the ceremony as we all got dressed (groomsman) we began talking about masturbating and we all shared our habits, paritcularly about how to masturbate in the shower, have we used conditioner as lube etc.

it was fun.

I don't think so unless you're not that close.

>>17976751
Aw shit that does sound fun, but only in very few circumstances.

>>17976760

i guess? i mean if you listen to guys conversations they talk about sex a lot... we might think its only on special occassions but if you know a guy it can make up a large bulk of conversation.

my best friend and I know a LOT about each ohters sex lives. arguably a bit too much at some points, but were just who we talk to when we want to say something.

i think a lot of men are afraid to admit its fun to talk to other dudes about sex. i mean they all do it, but to admit its 'fun' to actually bond with a guy over it sounds gay so no one will admit its 'fun' they'll just say its talk.

it is fun though. you learn about people and find similarities you didn't know you had. and sometimes you learn stuff.

apparently if you masturbate at a really young age it trains you have to multiple orgasms. i learned that cuz my friend and i talked about our masturbation habits

>>17976751
But your friend will never have to masturbate again because he got married, right?

>>17976769

he still does, but we usually go multiple times a day so its nbd

Not weird. Take it as male bonding. My pals and I recommend hentai to each other regularly and have watched it together.

>>17976778

>have watched it together

this is a little gay. (and a little hot im ashamed to admit).

>>17976767
Well, maybe for me it would only be in certain circumstances. I have a couple of friends with whom I discuss sex in a frank way, but for most of my friends it just isn't something that is a big part of what we talk about. Maybe when I was younger, but not today.

>>17976746
Are you one of those women who get horny about thinking about their male friends getting emotional?

>>17976807
No.

>>17976797
Come on dude thats like saying its gay if you look at the ballsack when watching porn or glancing at the guys junk at the urinal next to you. Not tryna be homophobic btw just real.

>>17976907

not really man. its you jerking off with your friends. thats just barely not sex.

its okay. im nto saying it makes you gay just that the act itself is kind of gay.

dont stop by any means, but im at least 10% faggot so im biased

>>17976746
>selfcest
not weird at all

>>17976797
>>17976907
>>17976911

It is most def a little bit gay. Looking at the ballsac is also a little bit gay. If we're going to define gay as "being turned on my someone of the same gender." But, I mean... sexuality is fucking complex. It is not just a 1-dimensional axis. But even if it were, I promise you that nearly everyone alive (if not absolutely everyone) would fall somewhere on that scale between the 2 endpoints.

>>17976953
How am I gonna self insert my own dick and balls into the male actor then? Also I am aroused by the hentai and the fact it is highly rated by my friends, not aroused by my friends. I dont see how that is gay but I guess you draw the line differently.

>>17976746
Source?

>>17976968
I guess we do. To me, mutual masturbation is a sexual act you're doing with another person. Even if you aren't actually touching each other. Your friend's presence and participation (a passive participation, but participation nonetheless) is part of your sexual experience.

>>17976977
http://g.e-hentai.org/g/820001/d2165a8f80/

>>17977023
Thanks

can we please go back to discussing how nice it feels to share sexual conversations with our mates?

any ones in particular that helped bond you?

>>17977036
I was having an argument with my then-girfriend about my masturbation habits, and I went over to a couple's (a gay couple, actually, with both of whom I'm pretty good friends) place to blow off some steam and get drunk and play games. I told them that what was bugging me, about how for me, masturbation isn't a replacement for sex, but actually fills quite a different need, it's more like alone time than it is like sex for me. And one of them said that it was similar for him. It was really validating.

>>17977046

thats actually pretty cool. kind of a self love sorta thing right?

kinda like taking a shower. sure its fun to take a shower with someone else, but having a warm shower with the lights off and a beer all by yourself is totally different.

this seems really strange to me, op.

i'm in my 30s now, but in my time of youth, your sexual proclivities once known was a social weapon to be used to gain status. The only chance you had was if your taste was so vanilla as to be non-distinguishing