Does /adv/ believe in sexual punishment?
This is not something that exists in my family, and I am worried that it rewards and reinforces bad behaviour while being an insult to sex positive persons.
>>17975719
think were going to need more details than that
>>17975722
Hi anon,
I am concerned that individuals whom I have relationships with are engaging in negative and hurtful behaviour expecting some kind of sexual punishment in return, which they are not receiving from me. I am wondering if you have any thoughts or experience on this topic.
It's kinda kinky but idk I would prefer it not being due to actual bad behavior, more just as like after playful banter. If she's being a bitch I'd just dump her imo.
>>17975728
>>17975744
sounds like the kind of thing that only happens in sitcoms desu. when in doubt, talk to your partner
>>17975719
Can you be more specific? Are you talking about kink/BDSM or something else?