Am I asexual or do I just have dick problems? How to tell? Recently I was going to sleep with someone but we ended up just cuddling because I couldn't pop a chub. Even while cuddling naked for like 3 hours I didn't even get a half chub. What gives? This has happened before
Also I don't masturbate or watch porn if that's relevant
This is a HUGE problem
>>17973345
You probably have trust issues bro. You aren't relaxed enough.
>>17973350
I don't think so. I wasn't nervous at all. Also getting hard is a automatic response to getting aroused so I don't know how trust issues are relevant
>>17973345
do you fap to porn?
>>17973566
No. I don't gap at all
>>17973345
Do u want to have a boner? Do you really want it?
>>17973619
I suppose. It should happen regardless of me wanting it
>>17973576
Your dick might be asleep. When i dont jerk off for a while I stop getting erections and morning wood, but if i beat off i wake up with a rager in the mornings and get boners thru the day.
Just try beating off a lil, without porn. See if that helps
>>17973632
I don't think you could be asexual, but I see yo take distance from your sexuality and your phallus my friend. Everybody is a-sexual being in some way, the question is which
>>17973345
Are you sexually attracted to whatever sex (or both) that you're attracted to? Do you want to have sex, and you're just having these issues when it comes down to it?
If so, you aren't asexual, you just have some form of erectile disfunction.
If you aren't attracted to either sex at all and don't want to have sex in the first place? Then yes you're asexual.
And from what I can tell by your post, it's the former.
>>17973636
Will do
>>17973643
I'm sexually attracted yeah, but I don't really always want to fuck them. It's hard to say whether I "want" to have sex or whether I try because other reasons, like just a feeling of that's what I'm supposed to do or I'm not really a man etc.
>>17973359
Not quite, I myself have had trouble getting it up for girls I honestly thought were too good looking for me.
Nerves,intoxication general health all play a huge part in it. Dont just assume its as simple as hurr girl meaks benis hard
>>17973661
If you're sexually attracted to people then you are not, by definition asexual.
>>17973661
Anxiety, nerves, living up to expectations, pressure. It's all stress related, and because you're stressed out about performing correctly, you don't perform correctly.
Relax.
you're either asexual or gay