Dear /adv/,
I have a girlfriend that I love very much and respect to no end. Lately, she has begun to treat me like garbage in person (ignoring me, snapping at me, acting like I am a pain in the ass) but she tells she loves me at night. What do I do? I don't want to break up with her because I think she may be the one, but I have enough self respect not to let myself be treated like crap. Can I save this? And how?
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Have you talked to her about this?
>17951242
I have, twice now. She knows she sometimes does it, I don't think she understands quite how often, and she doesn't want to, but every time she says she will try to stop, I never see fruit.
>>17951161
What did you possibly to do upset her in the past that's making her treat you like this now? I.e. A few days ago were you hardcore staring at some girl in the gym or complimenting her friend in a way that was uncomfortable? Need more details and full story.
Nonetheless you don't *have* to break up, but tell her you need space for a couple days. If you're too dependent on her she may be lashing out because you're spending too much time together. Take rest days. Hangout for 3 days take a 3 day break and hangout over the weekend or whatever.
>>17951258
Absolutely nothing that would cause treatment like this. In fact, I have honestly done nothing to anger her at all. In regards to a full story, what more would you like to know?
She might break up with you soon, reminds me of my ex. Think of any argument you have had with her and try and figure out how to solve it.
>>17951296
I see...
I can't say the thought hasn't crossed my mind. I believe I had resolved every issue that has caused turbulence between us, but I will nevertheless go through them, thank you.
>>17951333
How long have you been dating her? The first 2 months of the relationship was awesome, and then the next 2 slowly went down hill. "Happy 4 month babe!" "Can we talk?" Bam!
>>17951357
This month is the sixth we have been dating, and vaguely stable up until this point.
Is she sexually frustrated?
>>17951451
I'm not sure what you mean, can you explain?
>>17951465
Maybe she just needs to feel sexy as fuck/fuck her more.
I get pretty snappy with my boyfriend if we go more than a week without sex.