How to break up?

>>17950726
If you're convinced, just do it - be honest and upfront, apologise, leave the house.
Give him some time to get over and don't try to be his friend. Wait for him to make the first move.

OP, feelings chance once you get out of the honeymoon phase.
I'm not absolutely and mindlessly crazy for my boyfriend like I was at the beginning either. But I do love him deeply, I want to devote myself to him and I'm very happy with him.
All relationships have ups and downs, too.
Give yourself some time to think about it, in my opinion.

>>17950739
I've been thinking about this for a while but you're right about the honeymoon phase. I think things are beyond that though, I know things need to change.

I feel suffocated, I feel like I'm expected to be someone else because I'm with him. Sometimes I even feel like I'm his mother.

Im going to give him some space but I feel horrible if he has no idea that this is coming :(

>>17950748
Have you tried talking to him about this?
I don't want to push you to stay in a relationship if you don't want to, but it seems like something that can be worked through.

Maybe give it a try before breaking up.

>>17950771
I'll definitely see if there's anything we can work on but ti be honest when you're notongr attracted to someone and fail to see them as a partner it feels wrong to string it out...

Thank you for your replies tho

>>17950781
Oh, of course.
If you feel like that, you should just leave.

Good luck!

>>17950726
It's going to hurt him no matter how you do it. Move out and let him decide if you're going to continue to be in his life. Personally, I cut ties when I'm dumped. Not so much out of spite but because the wound is fresh and seeing a woman again after something like that tends to dredge up pain I'm trying to get over.

Be prepared for that and while you're thinking about it, ask yourself "am I prepared to never see this person again?"