I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive anymore. What do?

Ask him.

>>17946794
I want to but I have major anxiety issues and I don't want it to turn into an arguement where I could possibly lose him. We just moved into a new apartment too so I don't wanna fuck things up

>>17946792
Why do you think so?

>>17946792
Well, honestly - are you trying to stay attractive?
Are you in shape? Do you dress sexy around him? Do you flirt with him?

Why did you put spaghetti in the photocopier, Katie?

>>17946823
We use to fuck like jack rabbits then over the past like 5 months are sex life has gone down drastically. We haven't had sec in a few weeks. Didn't even fuck on our anniversary a couple weeks ago. He told me he doesn't have as high as a sex drive as me, but I know he faps whenever I'm away from home or when I'm sleeping.

>>17946826
Yes I am. I go to the gym, I flirt with him all the time, I ask ways dress sexy. But nothing I'm doing seems to work

>>17946798
Things will never heal if the other doesn't know if there is a problem in the first place. You're better off instigating some sort of conversation about that rather than leading a loveless relationship.

>>17946840
hes either getting it elsewhere, or experiencing physiological or psychological difficulties. it may be prudent to suggest that he seek medical attention

>>17946863
I'm don't know how to start this kind of conversation

>>17946868
He doesn't work and I work part time so I know he's not getting it from anywhere but fapping to porn or fap threads. Everything was fine and now it's not

>>17946868
Getting it elsewhere doesn't mean he is cheating - you've mentioned that he masturbates. Ask him to stop. That will help, and if he is reasonable he should have no problem with that request.

I've been the male in this situation before so I am almost certain that his masturbation is what's causing it.

>>17946792
Go to the gym and out down the fork

>>17946879
Be upfront the the guy! Take charge.

>>17946882
I weigh 120 lbs and I'm in good shape

break up a find someone who is into you, instead of putting up with him do something for yourself. Love is temporary, you'll be able to live happily without all the bullshit.

>>17946880
He feels worthless because he doesn't have a job. Can you do anything to help him find one?

>>17946792
Become dumb blonde with big tits, that's what every guy wants.

>>17946898
We've been looking I'm currently lpoking for a new job too, but the jobs around my area are god awful. We're bartenders but it's hard to get bartending jobs when you both 20

>>17946920
What if you two joined the Peace Corps together? You could have the experience of a lifetime together and help the world!

>>17946946
We've talk about something like that, but simply don't have the time or money atm

>>17946960
Joining the Peace Corps is free, and they pay for your training. You then help better the world together for the next 27 months. No additional time and/or money required.

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get naked.

>>17946972
We can't just leave our two cats and 10 reptiles

>>17947038
You could try City Year or America Counts for some domestic options.

>>17946836
>He faps whenever i'm away from home or sleeping
Uh how can you possibly know this when you're not there in either of those scenarios

>>17946890
120lbs is absolutely useless information without a height. You could be 5'2" and fat at 120lbs.

You can try fapping by yourself naked on the bed.. and just wait till he catches you..

le element of surprise...

or cook him spicy food.. that may help..

or go out running with him.. and undress yourselves together n shower together after a run.. it's fun..

>>17946840
Maybe he's actually attracted to bigger girls and your desire to lose weight is turning him off.

>>17946792
>Anonymous 01/11/17(Wed)13:31:05 No.1794

Out of curiosity, why do you think that?
Also, for how much you been thinking that?

There are guys who get in a introverted state from time to time, can't tell if that's his case, i don't have any info