How fucked is it to kick out a housemate?

>>17945717
Have a buddy in the exact some situation, he and his friend hate their other roommate in their apartment because of literally every reason you've listed. I've met the dude 2 times he's pretty terrible.

Anyway they are relieved becausemail it's his last semester living in that apartment so they're getting off free anywhome, but in your situation I would recommend just getting a new roommate and getting the guy out. If he makes you that mad you really don't need him as a friend at all.

>>17945717
If you've talked to him already and he hasn't changed then yeah, kick him out.

Who is on the lease?

I am the asshole described, if i had no other options of living other than the roommate house, a simple "get your shit together or you're outta here" chat would probably straighten me up. But if hes overly prideful, id word it more sensitively than that. Because having 3 roomies splitting rent is obv better than 2. Unless you have a cooler roomie on standby then just drop his ass

>>17946146
They have already had that conversation, but maybe not the "or you're outta here" part. If they haven't, that's a good place to start. Maybe give the guy one more chance with him knowing it's his last.

>>17945717
>but shit I'm out of ideas

not really you posted here :)

yeah that reads like it is un-fixable

something has to change, either you 2 keep getting pissed off or somebody moves out

c'mon trying to change another person is very difficult, trying to change yourself is difficult why do you think you 2 can change him ?

let his boss at work deal with his crappy behavior

you 2 need some peace & quiet at home

>>17945717
Have you both confronted him? (You need to do this together.) If you have and he hasn't changed, kick him the fuck out. Your home should not be a toxic environment.

I wish I could kick out my housemate, but the owner won't do it. He sounds very similar to yours. I'm fucked cause I can't afford to live on my own. No more roommates!

>>17946146
>>17946563

I've considered confronting him with the threat, but we're both kinda worried that if we tell him that we'd find a new housemate, that he'd magically be the perfect housemate for the remainder of our lease, and then the day we renew it he'd go back to his old habits.

>>17946846
Whose name(s) are on the lease?

>>17946846
You could male him sign a roommate agreement. If you have something in writing, he may be more committed, and you have written proof if he goes back to his old ways.

>>17947021
All four of us are on the lease.

But I imagine that we could simply just agree to NOT sign next year's lease with him if he refuses to go. Because he can't afford a 4room place on his own. His only option would be to leave.