My GF is going back to grad school tomorrow where she has this guy friend who she describes as one of her best friends at school...should I be concerned because I just read her text messages to him today
>Her "Miss You!!! when will you back back?"
>Him "The 14th"
>Her "WHAT TIME???"
>Him "6"
>Her "YASS!!"
>Her "What the football game with me :)?
>Him "Sure"
>Her "YASSS"
The I Miss you and smiley face just seems too much to me.
It doesn't seem that sexual to me. Seems like a text to a dude firmly in the friendzone.
If it's really concerning you that much you could say that it makes you uncomfortable. Under no circumstances do you tell her that you read her texts.
>>17945627
>firmly in the friendzone
no lad, friendzoned ppl dont get "miss you"s and invitations to events with only the 2 of them
his one word answers are getting her wet actually
>>17945617
Girls have a lot of friendzoned beta orbiters. The fact that she showed you is enough to have me trust her.
My fwb has multiple betas who coddle her. I feel bad for them and I notice them looking at me with fucked up glances.
>>17945642
Yeah they do. Chicks fucking love validation. Miss you isn't the same as a sexual joke. I've been the orbiter and the fuck buddy and miss you isn't a fuck buddy text.
>>17945642
I agree, if he was friendzoned the conversation would be the other way
Ehhh could go both ways
>>17945648
hes not giving her any though
it seems like shes the one making the effort
>>17945617
He is cold somehow... I expect more msgs from him if there will be any fuck thing, maybe she is doing the offer
>>17945617
100% senpai lmao
>>17945617
Sex is just physical. If her heart is still for you then no worry.
>>17945700
lmao
>>17945617
Does she even like football?
>>17945700
>>17945700
hahaha
>>17945700
>>17945700
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>>17945700
>>17945700
TOP FUCKING KEK
>>17945720
This. Although, she's basically moving away from you to college, so she will be hooking up. Either reconcile yourself to this fact, or move on.
>>17945617
>she has a guy friemd
Dump the bitch, she aint got no loyalty
>>17945617
>guy friend
>reaching out to him
>wants to hang out 1 on 1
Nope. Only exception would be if you do the same shit with a girl friend and she doesn't get mad.
>>17945700
Topkek! Hahah
GG OP
Not enough back story to go off of, the texts aren't too damning. Keep an eye on it though. Platonic friendships seem pretty rare unless this guy is gay by chance? Need more info
>>17945617
If you're regularly sleeping together then I'd say it's extremely unlikely she's fucking her friend. The moment you guys have a break or whatever she'll get drunk with him and let him fuck her. This is normal female behaviour, they loose protection from you so seek it out from a trusted male by offering sex in return. She'll let him do anything to her because she's desperate for male protection and he'll do every degrading thing he has been thinking about doing to her for years.
I hope you guys don't have a big argument.
>>17945617
He's a beta orbiter. I know because I've been a beta orbiter before.
Girls will go so far as to kiss their orbiters on the cheek and do flirty shit like that only to reveal later they have a bf. But he actually knows she has a bf which makes him pathetic and she probably won't sleep with him desu.
>Her "Miss You!!! when will you back back?"
A bit bubbly, but that depends on character.
>Him "The 14th"
Fairly flat. Either not a texter, busy, shy, or trying not to reveal too much information.
>Her "WHAT TIME???"
Exclamation with caps signifies significant interest in the subject, but is dependent on context. Time would provide more information. If immediate, this would seem to suggest a strong desire to be in his physical presence. Obvious, but a bit odd for a friend. It's an uncommon way to show excitement.
>Him "6"
Again, flat. Her responses versus his don't make a ton of sense. She's ensuring that she exudes excitement, yet receives no reciprocation, only a minimal response. Again contextual, but their personalities seem to be polar opposites. It makes me wonder what brings them together.
>Her "YASS!!"
Please no.
>Her "What the football game with me :)?
Given that she's just going back, I can't imagine the football season is going on too strong. This would indicate that this event is much less about football, and more about having an excuse to spend time with him. If that was the case, I would refer to my earlier statement regarding what brings these two together. If she feels she needs an excuse to spend time with him, then that would imply that she doesn't feel that they could make a time of just having coffee or something more simple.
>Him "Sure"
Again, completely flat. At this point, I would start to get a bit suspicious.
No intent on conveying any emotion or information other than to affirm information.
>Her "YASSS"
Ignoring his bland responses without question and exudes excitement anyways.
I don't know him, but unless she's the bubbly type, this doesn't seem to add up. Far too little interest on his side, and far too much on her side. Either way, it's inconclusive. Only further evidence would be able to contextualize it. Either way, you likely won't know until it has occured.
>>17945617
Dude u are being cucked. She be doing netflix and chill with this guy letting him stuff her with shaft. Shes defo sucking his dick.
>>17945617
I feel you should just talk to her about it if it bothers you so, anon. Whether it's a sign or not, my experience has shown anything is possible.