Hey /adv/ I need some help. So , I met this girl, we really clicked,

>>17945237

you are friendzoned

just be that and find somebody else

or ask her if she wants to go on a real date with you, if she says no then drop it

this waiting crap is ridiculous

i'm guessing she does not see you as a sexual partner instead just a support friend'

>>17945261
No , I mean, we've gone out on dates, we've had sex. We have intimate contact. It's just strange

>>17945275
>It's just strange

and so are you

wtf are you asking ?

> But she doesn't want a committed relationship, which isn't what I am looking for.

you 2 are just sex buddies right ?

if you want her to commit then you have to ask

>>17945284
We're like sex buddies, with mutual romantic interests, but she is fooling around, not wanting to acknowledge me as a partner. She likes to feel that she is in control of me, and that's not the same thing around

>>17945284
>>17945297
For instance, she constantly reminds me that we are just "friends", but sex buddies don't bond together for fucks sake. Yet, she likes to feel that I won't go to anyone else while she could.

>>17945312

hmmm.... so yeah it reads like she is just using you for your dick, which is fine but you want more ?

i'd say forget her, stop the sex, and find some other gal where relationship is more balanced and not so much head games

>>17945312

you just need to be firm. say she's with you or she's on her own. she'll decide to go her own way, regret it, and come back to you. from there, it's up to you.

>>17945312

(cont'd)

and you just have to make sure she understands, in no uncertain terms, that if she isn't going to be who you want her to be, then it's over between you too COMPLETELY

you have a right to the partner that you want and you deserve to be happy. tell her that if she isn't going to be what you need then you'll find someone who will. and then do that thing. follow through. man up.

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>>17945328
Thanks guys, I think I might just do this. I really appreciate it.