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"Girlfriend" has ignored me for 2 days now

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I met this girl about 3 weeks ago and we hit it off pretty well. We had 2 dates where we got hot and heavy but no sex.

On Sunday she told me about her future and said she was worried, I told her not to worry, that it'll be ok, but she seemed very annoyed by that. Now she won't reply to messages.

Am I right in thinking it's finished? Or should I send an apology?
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Don't apologize. Just stop sending her messages and live your life. She may come around, she may not. If she contacts you again don't even bring up the last conversation. Just make plans and do whatever you usually do and act like her ignoring you didn't even affect you. It's important to be interested but not too invested at this early stage. Also try not to fall into a pattern of her dumping problems on you. Only been on two dates and she's already trying to use you as an emotional tampon? That's not where you want a sexual relationship to go. Not as this juncture anyways.
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>>17943290
3 weeks and no sex isn't girlfriend territory.

Just fucking drop her. If she slinks back see if she'll fuck. Don't develop any feelings for chicks before they put out. Learn your lesson.
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>>17943303
>>17943305
Thanks guys, this makes a lot of sense. I am pissed she has taken this so personally, and the fact she denied sex and then seems to be upset about that is dumb. Thanks
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>>17943448
I don't think you know enough about women, she doesn't want reassurance at least not right away, she wants you to listen to her problems and empathize. Either way yeah let her come back to you,
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>>17943460
I know fuck all about women, but yeah I can understand that. This is one of my first proper relationships so I'm still learning. Thanks mate
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>>17943303
Please don't listen to this nu-male drivel, all it does is enable this bullshit behaviour from girls if they can get away with it for free.

I'd forget about her, she's not worth your time.
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