I have a serious mental problems I assume >be 22 >student

>>17940293
You're watching way tooooooo much porn. I had some trouble like you some time. Cut the porn for good and save your sperm. Testosterone will rise and nature will do it's trick.

>>17940298
I haven't watched porn since 2 weeks before going partying with her... I didn't even feel the urge to fap to watch after other girls or anything just because of her. That is why I am so frustrated.

>>17940293
you are an anime faggot, what did you expect?

>>17940303
So because I am an anime faggot (which I am not but let's assume I am) that makes everyone else think I am a good looking alpha male but I cannot get to fuck girls although they themselves want to be with me? Surely does make sense.

>>17940302
Maybe you didn't " click" with said girl. Personally I've always been picky. You could give me e 10/10 and I would ignore her for a 6/10 I actually like. Never did one nighters though. Good looks gonna take it far but not as far as character imo

>>17940317
I thought about that but that certainly is not the point. I fucking am in love with this one girl like crazy. I didn't see her 2 weeks I finally thought I am over her. Today I saw her again every single feeling came back up again and I am sitting here since 6 hours and can't even think straight.

>>17940317
Also her character and her looks are perfect for my taste. LIke I couldn't have asked for more. Not only that but also the whole environment we are in is perfect for a relationship with us two. Literally everything is perfect. Just I am fucked up and I can't do anything. I even went with her alone partying at a club already but fuck I couldnt do anything. She most likely as well thought what kind of gay faggot is that...

>>17940324
Hm. Could be love. You seem to care more for the girl rather than thinking of her as a sex toy.

>>17940307
Nobody thinks you are an alpha male. Kill yourself.

>>17940328
Talk to her,ask her out,start a relationship.. you have nothing to lose.

>>17940329
t. virgin

>>17940337
so ?

>>17940329
I assume it is. What I find strange though is that for like 30 minutes or an hour or so I can control myself perfectly around her. Afterwards I need a break else I go insane.

>>17940336
>>17940336
>tart a relationship
But how? I was with her alone in a club already as said and it was wonderful, she told me her shitty girlish stuff and her eyes sparked and she grinned as if she was receiveing the nobel prize from me. We danced she really enjoyed it but I was too much of a faggot to touch her. I am really scared of doing something because everyone knows us at Uni. Tell me one goddamn thing to make it obvious to her without sounding like a faggot.,

>>17940337
???

>>17940348
Ask her out for coffee. Tell her straight to her face and drink a shot of tequila. Really simple no? yet so hard.You simply need to be confident and dont give a damn about it. Beleive me it is easy when you are cold at such moments, being soft means you lose your chance with the girl. TLDR Be a man and tell her.

I kinda have the same problem. But after seeing this thread I will try to cut porn before going to parties.

>>17940359
Thanks for the reply dude appreciate it greatly. In 2 weeks there is a party. I will try to get her go alone with me again. When we are a little bit intoxicated I will take her out. I am thinking whether I will just tell her "I fucking love you" or what I should do. Any advice? I mean we are young and I am scared of an I love you being way too much and scaring her off.

>>17940372
Don't do it at a party. Ask her personally for an afternoon coffee. Don't screw it up when you're both drunk. Just grab a coffee after lectures, make sure she's free, improvise convo , then drop it. If she responds positively kiss her, then walk away/or just tell her you like her and act shy and if she's staring too much then kiss. never tell a girl you love them before you get with her. that freaks them out.
>BALLS OUT

>>17940392
But I thought the party is the best situation for that? Why not try it at a party if both of us do not know anyone at the place? In the end when she wants to go I would just try it.

> then drop it.
But how? "I really like you"? "I would love to fondle your ass with a stick?"

>>17940406
>Being alone together vs being alone with other people
It makes a difference. You can improvise, try something smooth. for e.g. : "You've been on my mind lately and can't seem to get off"
But it would be better if you improvise and don't learn phrases. Being spontanious and honest is a must. Be casual.

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>>17940303
Is there a curse on animefags?

>>17940428
Honestly yes I can see what you mean. But it is way easier asking her privately to join a party then to ask her privately to sit with me in a room with no one else. I mean what should I even ask her ? "Hey ... do you want to hang out with me in ..." We even have a room that I can lock the door from otuside so we are alone but what should I tell her? The moment I ask her "Hey you at uni want to come hang out in ..." I would feel very strange I dunno

>>17940428
>But it would be better if you improvise and don't learn phrases. Being spontanious and honest is a must. Be casual.
Yea I understood that really well. But as said I just have no clue what to tell her as thus that really was a great help.

>>17940445
You are within the spectrum of faggotry. Deny it all you want but it's true. You aren't much different than a brony or a furry.
Take a few steps back and look at that faggy drawing you just posted.

>>17940462
start a topic so you can have a convo. no you do not want to lock yourself with the girl or she will think you're a creep or even worse a rapist. Just ask her at uni if she's up for coffee and then tell her when and where. Like a coffee house or diner or something like that. Doesn't need to be fancy. You're being casual. You will talk casual. You will learn if she likes you or not. And then you will seize the means of reproduction (soon anon be patient, you have to be smart if you don't want to be dissapointed in yourself)!! Shall you fail, you will know that you lost nothing but learned valuable experience that will bring you closer to the clitoris !

>>17940489
Thanks man I really appreciate your effort. If I had any drugs I would pass the mto you know. But sadly I myself cannot find any weed currently and have to go without it today.

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>>17940467
I see what you mean, let me post this instead, mind you.

>>17940498
gay

>>17940493
You're welcome. Oh also. Some girls HATE weed, like it's satans dick in their favourite teddy bear. I broke up with mine recently and that used to be a factor for the breakup. Keep in mind if things get going.

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>>17940508
>Straight trap!

>>17940510
Thanks but she smokes herself. Not much but when we were on the party she brought some with her and smoked with me. She also always used to smoke with me when we work together at uni. Though for some reason she has stopped that since couple of weeks.

>>17940514
See now you have a topic to talk about when you ask her out for coffee :D

>>17940535
Really if I was gay I would have sucked you off now. I was really feeling down but for some reason writing this all really made me feel good again. Thanks man. I will definetly ask her the next couple of days. At I will try to. No I won't try I will motherfucking do it this girl is worth it more than getting weird eyes from literally every faggot there. Really thanks.

>>17940541
Make me proud anon !!! We are legion!